Life is created by yourself.
My brother is very sad, thinking that his son will be a beggar in the future, and life seems hopeless; The younger brother is very happy, thinking that his son will surely make a fortune in the future and honor his ancestors.
But my brother's daughter-in-law didn't believe it and thought that life was settled. From then on, she put her son's education first, and she told him to study hard no matter how hard life was. My son is trying to become strong and doesn't want to become a beggar himself.
My brother's daughter-in-law thinks her son is destined to be the top scholar. Since then, she has been obedient to her son. She never wants to study and never says a word to her son. My son has always regarded himself as a future champion, pampered and cynical.
Eighteen years later, the beggar's son became the No.1 scholar in high school, but the No.1 scholar's son dropped out of the list from Sun Shan, because he had developed a lazy habit since he was a child, and he could only make a living by begging after squandering his property.
The story tells us that our life should be mastered by ourselves, there is no such thing as destiny takes a hand, and the road to life depends on ourselves.
Julian Chen, a member of Little Tiger who was very popular in those days, once received an exclusive interview. In the interview, he said that his life was wrong. At that time, when he was trying to sprint for his career, one day his boss called him to a place full of famous producers, directors, newspapers and coffee shops. After he went to that place, a fortune teller told him that he was not suitable for this line of work. Because of this sentence, his job was zero, and the boss at that time dared not invest in him again. He was frozen for two years and stopped singing and acting.
Later, he realized that life is his own, not dominated. If you have an idea, you must express it. You can't be rejected by anyone. If others say no to you, you should choose your own path and don't be easily denied by others.
I like Dante's sentence very much: "Go your own way and let others talk." This sentence tells us not to care too much about other people's opinions, just go our own way.
Of course, we should learn through education, so that we can have correct knowledge, not evil Jaken; Let yourself establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values.
The splendor of life is not predestined, but formed by hard work. Life is created by ourselves, and everything depends on people's efforts. I believe that as long as we work hard, we will all have a life without regrets.