Help me figure out my eight-character marriage with my girlfriend?
Lady's constellation: Geng Wu (Earth Year), Gui Wei (Muyue), Ding Hai (Earth Day), Wu Shen (Earth Time).
Refer to your above birthday:
First, the first year of marriage for men and women is auspicious! Men's lives are "dirt" and women's lives are "dirt"; At present, a "native" woman marries a "native" man, and their life span is the same, so there is no mutual restraint!
Second, the year of birth of married men and women, most afraid of committing "heaven and earth rush." If the difference in life expectancy between men and women is six years, that is! At present, you two have the same time, so there is no such thing!
Third, the zodiac that is unfavorable to marriage
1, the genus is in conflict: in the afternoon, rats and children are in conflict, ugly cows are not in conflict with sheep, yin tigers are in conflict with monkeys, hairy rabbits are in conflict with chickens, dragons are in conflict with dogs, and snakes are in conflict with pigs.
2, the genus is harmful: rats do not harm sheep, ugly cows harm afternoon horses, tigers harm snakes, rabbits harm dragons, monkeys harm pigs, and chickens harm dogs.
3. Mutual punishment: pika punishment, snake monkey punishment, ugly cattle and sheep punishment, dragon dragon punishment, afternoon horse punishment, unitary chicken punishment, pig punishment.
When men and women get married, there is also a saying that it is harmful to avoid raising the year; At present, men's annual leave is "noon", which means that the zodiac belongs to "horse"; The female year is "noon", which is also the "horse" of the zodiac; There is no conflict and harm between the two, but there is mutual punishment! According to the ancient theory, it is incomparable.
There are two main problems in men's and women's marriage. One is that the zodiac does not match, and the other is that the eight characters do not match. The so-called disharmony of the zodiac refers to the fact that the marriage parties are in opposition, hurting each other, punishing each other, resisting each other, or robbing each other.
Mutual punishment originally refers to the mutual punishment between three kinds of animals. Sometimes, even if there is no combination of the three types, there is mutual punishment between the two animals that make up the three types:
Ugly punishment, punishment, punishment is not ugly, it is a punishment without mercy. The punishment of yin has been punished, and the punishment of yin has been imposed, which is a punishment according to the situation. Punishing children and punishing children is an unreasonable punishment. Chen, Wu, You and Hai are the punishments for self-punishment.
Judging from the eight-character information of both sides, you two belong to the type of "mutual punishment"! What is "mutual punishment"? Is to disagree with each other and punish each other!
In fact, the essence of the incompatibility of the zodiac is the role of the five elements in punishment and punishment. Therefore, the zodiac does not match, but it is still incompatible with the five elements. The zodiac doesn't match, must I not get married?
It doesn't have to be like this. Because the zodiac is just a word in the birthday, that is, the annual branch, which represents the foundation of marriage. Of course, the foundation of marriage is very important, just like a small tree. If the foundation is not good, it will affect its growth. But the foundation can also change with the growth of small trees, and sometimes it is not decisive. In marriage, the decisive factor is the comprehensive factors such as marital palace. Marriage palace can also be called spouse palace, which is a Japanese branch. So sometimes, although the zodiac signs are incompatible, if the marriage position is compatible, or other columns are compatible, or taboos are appropriate, or auspicious year is compatible, the harm of the incompatibility of the zodiac signs can be offset or alleviated, and we can barely get along.
At present, the male spouse's palace (Japanese branch) is "already" and belongs to "fire"; The lady's daily branch is "hai", which belongs to "water". In this way, the relationship between soil and five elements (that is, the relationship between water and fire exists) is "hai" and "already"! Male "Xin" was born last month and likes to use God as the five elements of "water"; Mrs. Ding was born at the end of the month, and she likes to use God as the five elements of wood, so the relationship between the two sides is "water" and "wood" (that is, men and women)! So from this perspective, the marriage halls of both sides can still be considered!
Therefore, in comparison, the harmfulness of the zodiac is 50% weaker, while the harmfulness of the wedding palace is 50% stronger. Therefore, just because the zodiac doesn't match, we can conclude that marriage is unhappy, but we can't completely conclude that we can't get married. Therefore, the incompatibility of the zodiac only refers to the disharmony between the two parties in the atmosphere of two birth years, so it is general, extensive, not specific and not absolute. It just means that this kind of marriage is not happy enough, and it is impossible to judge that two people can't get married simply because the zodiac doesn't match.
Therefore, the inconsistency of the zodiac can only show that the marriage foundation is not good and the marriage and love process may not be smooth and happy. Some differences can also be alleviated or resolved through adjustment efforts the day after tomorrow.
So what should be done to alleviate or resolve the misfortune of this zodiac marriage?
Strictly speaking, it is impossible to completely resolve the misfortune of the zodiac marriage. But it can be properly adjusted and improved, and it can be transformed into a good one. The adjustment method is as follows:
First, try to avoid it. It is the wisest thing to take precautions before they happen. When looking for a lover, if you find that it belongs to aggression, injury, punishment or robbery, you should try to avoid it. Otherwise, after love or marriage, due to the different gas fields of the zodiac, it will bring many unnecessary contradictions and conflicts to both parties, affect feelings or lead to breakup or divorce.
The second is customs clearance and neutralization. The principle of neutralization is actually to build a bridge between two incompatible zodiac signs and make them smooth. For example, when meridians collide, wood can pass customs and wood can turn into aquatic fire, so the two impulses can stop each other. Therefore, you can have a tiger child, wear a tiger-shaped zodiac ornament and plant some flowers to resolve the conflict. Other incompatible zodiac signs can also adopt this neutralization method according to their five elements of conflict, mutual harm and mutual punishment. For example, ugliness does not collide and is cleared by gold; Shen Yin, Shuiguan, Tuyouguan, Shuiguan, Customs, Muguan, Chenxuguan, Jinguan and so on.
The third is feng shui adjustment. The principle of feng shui adjustment is to comprehensively adjust feng shui according to the incompatibility of the two zodiac signs and the eight-character taboo, from the aspects of living environment orientation, material decoration, furniture collocation, bed placement, lighting adjustment, kitchen and bathroom renovation, color layout and so on. And use the environmental atmosphere to coordinate the popularity of the two zodiac signs and resolve the conflict between them. Geomantic omen is the most effective way to improve the incompatibility of the zodiac, but it involves many aspects such as the zodiac, eight characters, geomantic omen, five elements and so on, so it is more professional and complicated, and it needs to ask experts for help.
In fact, any adjustment is to adjust your heart and let the situation follow your heart. If we improve our understanding of the marriage of the zodiac, we can actively seek good fortune and avoid evil, and I believe we can also avoid, reduce or resolve the harm caused by the disharmony of the zodiac in reality.
The above viewpoints are for your reference!