Bad feng shui begins with the mouth.
Being able to talk is a kind of ability to get along with others, but if you talk too much, you will inevitably make no mistakes. The so-called disaster comes from the mouth, which is the truth.
I've met people who talk a lot, and they talk all the time, either bragging or gossiping. In the end, it not only made others hate it, but also caused trouble.
If you talk too much, people will become cheap.
The adult world, knowing silence, is the performance of high emotional intelligence.
Silence is low-key, calm and kind to people.
The smarter you are, the smarter you are. Shut your mouth? The more expensive you live.
Never show off yourself, blindly arrogant, often only embarrassing yourself.
Remember the last one? Zhai Tianlin people set up a rollover? When the incident happened, it was precisely because of his greed for fame and fortune that he publicized the identity of the so-called doctor everywhere, and finally he was provoked and made a joke.
Jiang Ye flaunts herself as a talented woman, teacher, photographer, writer and architectural prize winner.
She treated the public as fools and repeatedly showed off her so-called achievements, only to be exposed by professionals. A stone stirred up a thousand waves, and the public not only began to question her label, but also her character.
If a person always tries his best to show off himself, he will do many incredible stupid things. After a long time, he will naturally be exposed and become the laughing stock of everyone.
Shut your mouth. Don't show off. You know exactly how powerful you are.
Really capable people are always busy working hard, and people don't care about other people's comments.
You can hide others without showing off. Show off, your ignorance will be seen by others.
Publicizing family affairs everywhere is easy to cause trouble and turn small things into big things.
I lived in my mother's house some time ago, and a daughter-in-law in my neighbor's house just gave birth to a child. She talks loudly about her mother-in-law and her husband in the streets every day.
From her mother-in-law being lazy to her husband being inconsiderate, she told others what happened at home.
She may just want to dump the bitter water, but someone with that good deed passed it on to her family word for word.
As a result, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law deepened, and her husband had a lot of complaints about her. It was just an ordinary housework, but it was made a big fuss.
Family chores are inevitable, and smart people know how to resolve them, instead of seeking comfort from others' echo.
You know, in this world, there are many good people who can't see others, and there are also many people who talk a lot.
You think people are comforting you, but in fact, your family affairs have long been the talk of others after dinner.
Keep your mouth shut and be vigilant. Instead of making your dirty clothes public, try to communicate and solve them.
Speak right and wrong, hurt others, say good things, and don't mention right and wrong.
In the adult world, everyone has secrets. Don't stand in your own position, to gossip about others, to define others.
Take Yi Nengjing's recent stepping on Anita Mui in a variety show as an example. Talking about Anita Mui's life, she said that the other person had been looking for love all his life, which was quite pitiful.
Yi Nengjing may not feel that he has done anything wrong, but it is really impolite for a person to judge other people's lives and say that they are unhappy from others' standpoint.
Be a man, you really have to be modest. No matter what your present situation is, never pity others with a condescending and successful attitude.
Don't talk about other people's lives, because you don't know the story behind each other.
Don't deny others' choices, because everyone has a different definition of happiness.
To be a man, you'd better underestimate yourself more. A truly happy person does not need to compare with others.
When dealing with people, your mouth is your feng shui. The tighter your mouth, the nobler your life will be.
People who keep their mouths shut will cheat others, and their abilities are high and low, and others will not see through them at a glance.
People who keep their mouths shut can heal themselves, and the situation is good and bad, and they don't expect others to understand and comfort them.
A tight-lipped person can tolerate the right and wrong of others and will not judge rumors at will.
People who keep their mouths shut will naturally go wider and wider if they are measured and leave room for others.