How to quit prostitution!
Buddhism repeatedly emphasizes abstinence from prostitution, which is a matter of life and death and the foundation of transcendence. But how can we quit prostitution?
In fact, there is only the spirit of refining essence.
Normal people, eating whole grains, must have essence and sufficient essence, which naturally causes lust. If you just force yourself to avoid womanizing and suppress your desires. These people are only superficial abstinence, but in fact, their subconscious desires are more prosperous, and it is often difficult to control themselves in their dreams. Many monks are not close to women for a long time, but they inevitably have erotic thoughts in their dreams.
Abstinence from prostitution is like Dayu's water control. It is not a simple "water can carry a boat, but also overturn it", but it must be dredged. Build a foundation for a hundred days, open the abdomen, let the essence be introduced into the abdomen, and run in three veins and seven rounds. So the essence is not impulse, the mind is always there. If you want to live, you have to feel, and if you sleep, you have to be empty. Always keep your heart clean and don't let your desires arise. Instead of waiting for birth to surrender. Focus on prevention. Feel it when you think about it, and surrender.
If a man can sit still for 1-2 hours a day, he won't ejaculate for a month, and he won't have sexual thoughts. The lower body is full of essence, the yang root is firm, and the lower abdomen is swollen, but it can't stand eroticism. Breathing will open the Yin Hui point, which is the submarine wheel. Then the meridians of the lower abdomen will be opened and the yin will be removed. At this time, it is possible to "overflow the essence" and naturally drain the essence without wanting anything. This is to exhaust the old essence, remove the yin, and then a new essence is born, pure yang and healthy qi. Never mind, accumulate again. Do this 2-3 times, and the essence will open the door of the abdomen. When the abdomen is opened, qi will naturally flow into the abdomen and circulate in three veins and seven rounds. After that, the body and mind are clean and calm, and it is not easy to have erotic thoughts.
The key to opening the door to the abdomen is to stop greed, preserve the essence and open the abdomen this month. After the opening of Dantian, as soon as I moved into Dantian, Dantian immediately became hot, and my body and mind were calm and I couldn't afford it. So quiet, let the true qi circulate in three veins and seven rounds.
The true practitioners who can break their virginity have three veins and seven rounds, and samadhi is really endogenous. This is tantric. Turn lust into clumsy fire, running in three veins and seven rounds.
And this is actually the difference between a saint and a mortal, who let the essence leak out and live and die again. Sage, let the essence flow backwards, three veins and seven rounds of circulation, and get rid of the cycle of life and death.
Why are you lying on your right side?
When lying on the right side, your feet bend, just like sitting still, and your abdomen forms a vortex, where breath accumulates. Ran Yan is quiet and its abdomen is hot. This posture is a good way to keep breathing and spirit. After enlightenment, practitioners sleep in this position. You can stay in dantian and refine gas.
No adultery-how to avoid confusion?
No matter Taoism, qigong masters and Buddhism have one thing in common, that is abstinence. Taoist practitioners have a saying that "building a foundation in a hundred days". Is to abstain from sex for a hundred days. Ordinary people, take a few days off and start to increase their essence. When they are full of energy, they will find a way out, so they will be impulsive and burn themselves for desire. The way out for mortals is to take root, need to vent, and then vent after venting. If it leaks, it will be weak for a few days, then rest for a few days, then increase it, and then vent. This cycle is endless. Always be an ordinary person.
However, qigong masters, Taoist priests and monks do the opposite. After a few days of abstinence, the essence increased and the foundation was solid. At this time, the heart is calm, there is no lust, or meditation, or lying on the side, and the mood is peaceful and quiet. When the roots go down to the lower abdomen, they will become more and more full. The root of yang is as hard as iron, which lasts for a long time and makes the abdomen swell. This is "no desire, just rigidity". Continue to accumulate, these essence have nowhere to go, which will naturally open Yin Hui point and lower abdomen meridians. Continue to save, and then suddenly the abdomen is enlightened, the abdomen is opened, the essence suddenly flows into the abdomen, the feeling of bloating disappears, and the penis is soft. From then on, as long as you are quiet, Dantian will have a fever. In this way, the energy in the abdomen will increase, that is, "refining gas." Without this step, the abdomen is not opened, and there is nowhere to store the essence. So this step is called "porch enlightenment". After that, the essence naturally sublimates and runs in three veins and seven rounds, making the body and mind clean and peaceful and full of breath.
So you can sit still at night and don't need to sleep. Or, lie still for a while during the day and at noon. Lying on the right, thinking about Tian Chan, Tian Chan is hot. Suddenly, the heart and kidney intersect and feel refreshed. No need to sleep. Besides, no killing, no stealing. In this way, there will be no karma entanglement and the yang will not be damaged. It is for the body of pure yang, and it is for "venting". That is, "life is determined by precepts." Therefore, the premise of undivided attention is: no lust, no desire to sleep. You should abstain from sex, cut off your genitals, sleep and have a light appetite. Can't eat for one to seven days. So you can meditate day and night, day and night, two days and two nights, or even seven days and seven nights.
Only in this way can I quit kung fu and be full of energy. Hold the scriptures, hold spells and recite Buddha. In this way, the breath will continue, and it is possible to achieve uninterrupted day and night. Otherwise, the ordinary body can't do it. Only from one day and one night to seven days and seven nights can we enter the samadhi of chanting Buddha and "don't think about it" That is, "wisdom is born of determination." Wisdom is the childlike heart of "nothing to worry about and nothing to doubt". I can't stand the doubt, and I can't wash my heart. Test standard: no sex for 100 days, no bills at night.
Buddhists, bodhisattvas, etc. There are six links, while ghosts and gods only have five links, because they don't have a sixth link. Of the six links, only the missing link is true and reliable, and the other five links are illusory and unreliable. Leakage means the root of yin is broken, essence and qi flow back, abdomen is broken, and three veins and seven rounds of circulation. No lust, no positive lust, no dream lust, no lust, no life, physical and mental purity, no lust, no sleep, no appetite, and five desires can be freed from the cycle of life and death.
If you want to practice this method, you can't prevent yourself from practicing the method of observing interest, breaking lust, making a stupid fire, and entering the four Zen and eight decisions.
Abstinence is the basis of leaving the six divisions in the wheel of karma and going to the pure land.
The whole Shurangama Sutra focuses on one obscene word.
Practitioner, abstinence is basic.
How to break her virginity? First, refine the essence and dredge the essence. Second, the observation is comfortable and the desire is not born.
These two methods are exactly the same as the two nectar methods advocated by the master: observing interest and impure view.
What is observation:
Observation is to observe your body and mind, what you are doing now and what you are thinking. It's introspection, it's consciousness.
Anyone who has read the Heart Sutra knows that the first sentence of the Heart Sutra is "Look at the Bodhisattva and walk deep ...". The basis of the whole heart sutra is the word "viewing at ease": viewing-yourself-the present-what you are doing and thinking. Observation is to keep your consciousness in the present.
How to observe:
All you have to do is do nothing, just observe and see what you are doing and thinking. Be careful, no matter what you think, don't get involved and don't suppress those thoughts. All you need is patience and seeing them clearly. Watch them come into being and disappear. Watching an idea appear and another idea disappear. You will experience that they are impermanent, self-defeating, self-inflicted, and fuck you? Why use people to go around and get caught up in it? Why did you cut it off? As long as you don't agree with them and keep your distance from them, they will be disillusioned. Everything is illusory and self-nature is pure.
How to treat beautiful women?
Someone asked, do you watch a yogi meet a beautiful woman?
It's best not to watch, or watch less. Watching too much leads to lust and confusion. So, out of sight, out of mind.
And sometimes it is necessary to preach the dharma, so it is inevitable to contact and have to watch it. What should I do?
Then you have to learn how to look at beautiful women. Looking at beautiful women, most people only see beautiful women and forget themselves. And yogis see beautiful women, both beautiful women and themselves. And the focus is on the latter, look at yourself.
Looking at yourself facing a beautiful woman, what changes have you made in your body and mind? Does it arouse desire? Observe how desire arises and how it disappears.
Observe objectively, keep your distance and don't get involved. This desire is born and destroyed, impermanent and disillusioned.
When you are familiar with observation kung fu, the traction of this desire will become weaker and weaker, and you will no longer be bound by it. Desire is dispensable at this time. So, it is broken. Furthermore, when you see beauty and desire together, you can perceive it now and put it down now. You can give up your desire.
If you want to go any further, you won't get up.
So at this time, I just looked at that beautiful woman and saw it clearly and clearly. Beauty is beauty. And if you can't afford it, what are you afraid of?
How do laymen make love?
Many people will ask, I am an amateur, how to deal with sexual intercourse?
It's simple. Keep observing and be alert. See clearly how one's desire arises and how sexual intercourse occurs, and experience the feelings during sexual intercourse, then the feelings after sexual intercourse, and then the feelings when the desire disappears. Pay attention to the whole process.
You will find that desire arises and disappears. GC comes and goes. Everything is impermanent and eventually disillusioned.
Desire is a temporary impulse, a gust of wind, which comes and goes, leaving nothing behind. This is vanity.
And GC is only a temporary and insignificant feeling. And men and women are entangled in each other for such a moment of affection, and the six divisions in the wheel of karma are really not worth it.
I am proficient in observing kung fu. For sex, it is like chewing wax, indifferent and tasteless. Desire will naturally calm down and sexual intercourse will be dispensable. So, further on, it's gone.
However, it should be noted that it is best for laymen to learn Buddhism and let go of their desires together. Otherwise, we will do our duty as husband and wife. Otherwise, you'd better become a monk and don't delay people's happiness.
Concept of impure qi
Familiar with observing kung fu, it is not only easy to break lust. It is also easy to break the wine and meat.
Always realize that when you smell meat, the surface smells delicious, but the smell inside is turbid. When you smell it, the breath of body and mind will be instinctively rejected.
As long as I smell the onion and garlic, even the raw onion placed a few feet away, I can feel the spicy taste, and my body breath is instinctively rejected. Stop it. It's cooked and stinky.
As soon as you smell alcohol, there will be a breath, which will make you dizzy and the breath of your body will be instinctively rejected.
This is because the precepts are pure and the body and mind are pure. I will instinctively reject other dirty gases. And you can easily perceive all kinds of smells. Like a mirror, when the dust is wiped clean, it is easy to take an image.
At this time, you will have one more sensory function: sensing with qi. You can perceive things with your own purity.
For wine, meat, onions and garlic, your breath will immediately feel their stench.
For women, some are fresh and not sultry. Some show off their sexy, smelly, physical and mental breath will naturally be rejected.
Going to some places is refreshing, just like some people say that it is a treasure trove of feng shui. Some places are dirty and dirty.
So is judging people. You can watch it or not. You may or may not listen. There is only one contact, even the exchange of words. I can immediately perceive what this person is like.
At this point, impure views are natural. I am proficient in observing kung fu, and my body and mind are clean. I am like a mirror, which can reflect all kinds of unclean smells: wine and meat, onion and garlic, and so on.
Keeping precepts without leaking is the foundation of practice. It is imperative. If you want to practice, you must practice
And many people worry that they can't have sex and be men after abstinence.
In fact, on the contrary, you can not only become a man, but also become a real man.
I never want to talk about it. Afraid of speaking out, it will have a bad influence.
People who are not in the realm are afraid of being tired.
But in order to get rid of some people's concerns about abstinence, say it.
To break the sex, we must break it from the root, that is, "we can't afford lust", and we can't afford lust in our hearts.
And if you do it with your heart, your essence will accumulate. Half a month, January, even more months. The lower body is firm and full, but it will open the acupoints of Yin and Dantian, and the essence will flow into Dantian.
After that, I slept every night, naturally lying on my right side, and planned to stay in Dantian. The lower body is often "stiff without desire" and firm without desire. Slowly, your body will get used to this feeling of firmness and fullness. If you do this, it will be easy to "touch it".
At this time, your partner has not had sex for half a month and January. Naturally, I want to have sex. It doesn't matter. You can have sex.
Your lower body is strong, so you can have sex naturally. The key is to keep the desired mentality and the spirit of Tian Chan.
This result is "touching without venting", because you are full of essence and the sun is firm, so you are not venting.
The result is that your partner will appear in the GC many times, and then the GC will be tired and stop doing it. And you have to keep your desire and keep your breath in your abdomen. When your partner is tired, it's over. Go back to sleep, then lie to the right and stay in your abdomen. As soon as you lie down, your lower body will naturally become soft, and you will never feel uncomfortable. Essence naturally returned to Tian Chan.
Therefore, as a result of abstinence, you will not be unable to be a man. On the contrary, you will become a real man. On the contrary, it leaks when touched. How can it be a man? If you miss it, you will be weak for three to five days. How tired you are is a waste of time.
On the other hand, many men with premature ejaculation cannot last long. Without exception, it is precisely because of "lack of essence".
Therefore, for men whose premature ejaculation cannot last. The best way is to break the habit, and it will make you really angry. After several months of abstinence, I have enough energy. How does premature ejaculation happen?
It's just convenient to touch and not leak. Because you are a layman and have husband and wife responsibilities. And once you have desire, you can't keep breathing in your abdomen, and you will drain the sperm. Then you can't hide it in your heart. Therefore, "can't resist lust" is the key.
There are many methods after refining essence, many of which are not suitable for saying. And only if you do it yourself will you understand and know. Otherwise, it would be confusing to say it.
But one thing is certain, refining essence and true qi will benefit you for life.
A real abstainer should do this. Without a partner, I can't have sex and I can't bear lust. I am very happy. And with a partner, it is not only convenient for exercise, but also can't stand lust, touching but not venting. That's real kung fu. It's so comfortable
On the other hand, if you don't have a partner, you will dream, and if you have a partner, you will have premature ejaculation, listlessness and shortness of breath during the day. That is a complete coward, a complete ordinary person.
However, don't insist on "touching without venting". Don't ask for this just to be human. As long as you can break the habit, practice your spirit, keep the spirit of Dan Xin, and don't have lust, you can do it naturally. This is natural and can be done easily. On the other hand, you can't lose your virginity. If you don't know anything about the abdomen, you can't do it.
The key is: you can't take the initiative to find a partner, but react passively when your partner looks for you. You take the initiative to find a partner, and lust begins. The outflow of essence is difficult to control, such as a river that breaks its banks. And when your partner is looking for you, if you use static braking, you can't miss it.
On the other hand, ordinary people have worked hard all their lives for the pleasure of lust. And its pleasure is unsustainable and will decline when it is in the ascendant. It's really sad! ! !
Note: touching without venting is not the purpose of practice. It's for abstinence, not for practice. No matter how well it is repaired, it is just falling into the fairy road.
One of the ten immortals mentioned in the Shurangama Sutra:
Linglong immortals are famous for their strong coitus and sense of roundness.
The Shurangama Sutra says that such people "don't practice Samadha according to the right consciousness, don't practice delusion, but think about it"; He also said: "It is equal to all those who practice the mind method without practicing enlightenment." Although I can "get rid of physiology and live a long life", and even get magical powers with peace of mind, there is no way to change it, but "I also want to cycle the same cycle, and I don't need to practice Samadha, so I will repay them and spread them into various interests." Even if you are born to live for 10 million years, you will inevitably die and can't walk out the door. Therefore, the cultivation of immortality and alchemy is not advocated by Buddhists.
And some people have bad intentions, use this technique to make up for it and fall into the inferno.
So we must really cut off prostitution and be pure in body and mind.
At this point, the trilogy of abstinence from qi: refining qi, observing freedom, and touching without venting has all been written. These are my superficial views, which I hope will be useful to those who are destined. I hope that people who are destined can benefit from it and not suffer from it.
There are many things in the world that are secret, but there are also many things that are not suitable for telling.
How big is the secret of Buddhist abstinence? Only through practical empirical research can we understand the mystery. On the contrary, empty talk is useless.
It is the simplest five precepts of Buddhism: killing thieves, whoring and drinking, how many secret methods there are, and how many profound meanings there are. There are many secret ways to quit prostitution one by one. There are many merits and benefits in abstinence alone. Experience it for yourself.
Therefore, precepts are the most intimate of Buddhists, and precepts are teachers.
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