Tianding huangli
A friend posted such a passage that my sister got on the wedding car in a beautiful Hanfu and was ready to leave. My brother held the window in his hand and cried, which was touching.
Maybe I was heartless and teased "Isn't this a kiss?" The result was like throwing a big firecracker in a small pond, which caused a heated discussion.
Nowadays, marriages are basically free love. Even through the matchmaking of elders, both men and women will communicate and understand before talking about marriage. In the past, arranged marriages with parents in charge should be extinct. Let's not talk about what life will be like after marriage for a while. Weddings are usually the result of successful love, at least they are possible. No one should enter marriage with great dissatisfaction now. In this case, the wedding is a happy event. Why do you cry unless you cry with joy?
I hate getting emotional at weddings, especially when the MC insists on making the woman cry, which will make her look embarrassed and delay the meal. The water spilled by the married daughter is no longer effective. A daughter is much closer than a son. Young people all run to the city and set up new families in a foreign land. Their children have spilled water, and maybe their son will spill it further.
With the existing communication mode, transportation mode and space distance, it is not an obstacle to prevent relatives from communicating and meeting. If you are interested, you get together several times a year. If you are not interested, if you live in a city, you won't go more times.
Many people scold me for having no feelings, and I can't understand the affection of my brother and sister. I have no doubt about my brother's sincere feelings. When he marries the bride, there will be more people in the family. For the man, the wedding must be full of joy. For the woman, in addition to the joy of the wedding, there is often a feeling of separation, fearing that the bride will be wronged, which is like losing someone.
On the other hand, these are old calendars. Who may be wronged after marriage? Before marriage, you have to go through love, and both sides at least look pleasing to the eye. When you are engaged, you must bargain between the two families. If you don't think it's reliable, I'll remind you earlier, and don't wait until the raw rice is cooked.
In short, the scene of the young man threatening or crying at the wedding to ask his brother-in-law to be nice to his sister embarrassed me. Isn't it obvious that he doesn't trust his brother-in-law Imitating his brother-in-law is a love rat, and his feelings for his sister are pure, sincere and touching. The feelings between blood relatives have no purpose and do not ask for return, but the wedding occasion does not love the bride more than anyone else. It's a bit presumptuous to express his feelings as an outsider.
The above is about the calendar added in 2022, and it is about the sharing of weddings. I hope this will help everyone after reading the date of house decoration!