I want to ask my lover ... what to do ... what advice do you have? .......
The most successful thing in your life is the "hand and foot" fortune. You can manage the relationship between brothers and sisters or close friends, and maintain the friendship with brothers and sisters and close friends with your heart. Therefore, it is appropriate to have more contact and interaction with brothers and friends and listen to their opinions and opinions, and you will get the best help. In addition, the fortunes of subordinates, health, staying at home, children and parents can also be regarded as good luck in this life. Paying more attention to this will increase your luck, correct your bad luck and make your life smoother!
As for my life, what I am most dissatisfied with is the fortune of money. I lack mature financial management concepts and techniques, and it is difficult to make money. Therefore, I should be cautious in both financial management and investment, and try to choose a sound financial management method. In addition, such fortune as "basic", "going out", "love", "career" and "leisure" can also be regarded as bad fortune in this life. It is best to face it conservatively and handle it carefully to reduce the impact of bad luck!
In love, you are a more tolerant, accommodating, considerate and funny person. Therefore, when you get along with the opposite sex, you should say yes more, nod more, try to cooperate with each other's ideas, and let them know that you care moderately. You should also be measured when joking, so as to spread your charm effectively.
From the picture, the key house is Mao, which is the house of a congenital couple. In personality, there will be reciprocity. Zuo Fu, Youbi, Tiankui and other lucky stars will shine, which means that the attitude of tolerance and respect will be strengthened, and Mars, Bell Star and Empty Earth Robbery will enter the palace again.
These stars and patterns are all showing your innate love advantage:
1' s emotional expression tends to be dignified and polite, and his behavior and words are always well-behaved, clean and tidy, and he will not take advantage of the other party or let others take advantage of himself. Appropriate family values, (copy my answer Five Blessingg Trail ~ you still have to face it) have the basic conditions of a standard husband or a good wife and mother.
The expression of feelings is rough, often lacking quiet and romance, and it seems dull. The development of feelings usually begins with friendship and then moves towards romance, so the proportion of objects is quite high, belonging to the type of long-term love.
3. Have a large space for self-adjustment, be able to adapt to reality, correct your feelings and attitudes, think from multiple angles, and increase the harmony of interaction. You can give each other more space and increase the buffer of getting along. The conditions for choosing a spouse are relatively broad, which can increase one's contact range and objects and increase the chances of choosing.
The way to deal with feelings is relatively balanced, communication is rational and enthusiastic, reasonable, humorous and considerate, positive, elegant and introverted, slightly handsome, able to wait for opportunities to take the initiative to attack, win good feelings, encounter twists and turns, have stronger adaptability, and learn from experience, so that emotional life appears stable and lively.
As for shortcomings, you are more likely to ignore love and be in a dilemma. You are more likely to ignore each other's feelings, ignore managing love, and sometimes even avoid problems. If you take the initiative, you are worried that you are not dignified enough, and you want to be stable, but you are worried that you are not active enough.
It must be noted that because you tend to highlight shortcomings, that is, your love fortune has moderate bad luck. This is not a doomed marriage, but your love attitude is unstable and you are not good at dealing with gender issues. Love is prone to unexpected changes, which will increase troubles and bring resistance. So, in the face of love, you should not be optimistic. You should lower your expectations or standards, and learn how to get along more, instead of just loving or not, so as to have a chance to create a stable love.
The following detailed analysis of your shortcomings, as your usual attention and adjustment reference:
1 has the characteristics of being loyal to their duties, so they may spend less time together because of helping others or because of work. Coupled with the seriousness of attitude, it is easy for the other party to feel neglected or lack of care, thus causing emotional alienation and trouble.
I care about my privacy and keep my mouth shut. I won't tell my parents anything about my family, and I won't reveal my heart easily. Therefore, I often seem to be in high spirits, doing nothing, even lying to cover up, but hiding my emotional grievances and difficulties in my heart and tasting the bitterness myself.
3 don't pay much attention to love, even ignore it, and have a weak sense of responsibility. I often change my love life because of neglect of management. With low investment, it is easy to feel sorry for emotional injury, and sometimes even have more extreme ideas. The influence of relatives and friends around you is also obvious. When you meet the right person, you often lack courage and miss the opportunity. Sometimes, even if you feel that the other person is not suitable, you can't bear to flatly refuse, making things drag on and on, making it difficult to solve.
4. Emotional ambivalence increased. Sometimes I want to add some lively interest, but I am looking forward to it. Sometimes I want to create some romance, but I can't help losing my temper and ruining the atmosphere. My love life has become chaotic under the unbalanced speed.
Your love fortune in this life is the best when you are old. At this time, love has more room for development, you also feel quite optimistic, and your charm can be moderately emitted. This is the most stable period of love in this life. However, youth is the most vulnerable time in my life. It is not easy for me to seize the opportunity of love. There are many unexpected changes, and the development of feelings is often different from my expectations. Therefore, I am not optimistic about love. As for youth, it is not good. The luck of love is slightly reduced, and the development space is compressed. Be cautious.
From the perspective of individual ten-year intervals, the best performance time is 2057-2066. I have obvious willingness to manage my feelings, obvious charm, and I feel quite optimistic. If I grasp it well, it is the right time to start a relationship. The worst time of my fortune was from 2007 to 20 16. During this period, my ability to master love luck weakened, my frustration increased, and my charm was difficult to show. It was not a suitable time to start dating.
The teacher suggested
The correct attitude towards love is respect. We should consider each other's thoughts and feelings more, review ourselves before accusing each other, and reduce the negative impact of our shortcomings. It seems that I am not easy to calm down emotionally, the probability of making mistakes or making bad friends is obviously increased, and the range of emotional changes is enlarged. Therefore, managing love should be based on prudence, carefully choosing the object, focusing on several goals, concentrating on strength, not impulsive promiscuity, giving yourself more observation time, reducing the influence and reducing the chance of sadness. Dealing with love is not a temporary argument and clarification. We should strive for more buffer and review, exchange time for space, and effectively resolve conflicts or misunderstandings when both sides are relatively calm. Sometimes parting is better than getting married, and both sides don't have to be bored with each other all the time. Separate care can avoid shortcomings, reduce the boredom of love and increase yearning. Late marriage is also an option that can be considered, which can make you more mature and stable in managing your love life. In practice, we should adopt the practice of "strengthening responsibility, listening and understanding". Efforts should be made to reduce their shortcomings of being easily distracted, hesitant and neglecting their feelings. We can help them make up their minds and strengthen their will with the help of external forces, and at least maintain a high ability to implement key issues to enhance their sense of responsibility. Pay more attention to communication, not too complicated, which makes people feel cumbersome. You should talk less, listen more, and learn to be considerate to ease or reduce your emotional impulses.
Good luck recipe
The bad fortune of love is mainly related to money. As long as the income of money becomes unstable, it will adversely affect the fortune of love. So you should try to avoid the instability of money and income, so that your love opportunities will not slip away or disappear at will!
Like auspicious colors
Because of the negative influence of innate love fortune, the choice of color must be from the perspective of restraining fierce harm and suppressing shortcomings. And "boredom" is your innate main negative trait, which reduces your willingness to face and bear pressure, gradually suppresses your sense of responsibility, and makes your charm unable to spread. The attribute of this negative trait is "water". Under the fierce harassment, when soil and water are used to balance the influence and even create opportunities, when the basic hue (hue) of soil is yellow, it becomes the main axis of innate color. As for the saturation of color, it should be shallower to correct the wandering breath of this negative feature. In terms of brightness, opening a slightly limited mind should be brighter. Based on the above analysis, if you want to reduce the frustration of love and enhance your charm, you should wear or use light yellow as the main color.