Find out the fate of marriage. Tell me more.
The most successful thing in your life is the "basic" fortune. As long as you can work hard and manage with your heart, you can often turn the corner, and sometimes even better, icing on the cake. Therefore, it is better to ask for help than to ask for yourself. The best way to avoid misfortune is to rely on yourself in everything and strive to strengthen your own strength. In addition, the "career" fortune is also a good fortune in this life. Paying more attention will increase your good luck, correct your bad luck and make your life smoother!
As for my life, what I am most dissatisfied with is my "leisure" fortune. I am not good at leisure, and the leisure effect often fails to meet my expectations. I don't know how to relax. Therefore, leisure should pay attention to quality rather than weight, and expenses should be kept within the limits of income, not extravagance and waste. In addition, fortune such as "going out", "love" and "money" can also be regarded as bad fortune in this life. It is best to face it conservatively and handle it carefully in order to reduce the impact of bad luck!
In love, you are a more tolerant, accommodating, considerate and funny person. Therefore, when you get along with the opposite sex, you should say yes more, nod more, try to cooperate with each other's ideas, and let them know that you care moderately. You should also be measured when joking, so as to spread your charm effectively.
From the picture, the key house is "Xu", which is the house of congenital husband and wife. In terms of personality, the Tmall sky beam will be bright and dignified, and the chemistry department will be illuminated by the opposite house. With Kuiyue, it means that the attitude of respect and learning will be strengthened, and evil stars such as Mars, air and earth will re-enter.
These stars and patterns are all showing your innate love advantage:
1 has a high vision, but often pays attention to each other's personal characteristics rather than family background, so the object is usually good temperament. My attitude towards feelings often carries the dignity of the strong, and I am willing to take care of and guide each other. It is easy to unconsciously show my dignity.
I have the intention to maintain my feelings. If I encounter emotional difficulties, I will try my best to resolve them instead of breaking up lightly, and once I resolve them, I can often make my feelings go further. But if a relationship fails, it can't be forgotten immediately, and it becomes a long-term pain in my heart.
3 Emotional expression is fast and changeable, articulate, intuitive, and can observe words and feelings, so I prefer to appreciate the witty and introverted opposite sex. The opposite sex who is not smart enough or smart enough is often not easy to attract their attention.
It has emotional connotation, pays attention to feelings, and is easy to fall in love at first sight, but it soon disappears, but it is a pity, so it is easy to change feelings. If the two sides have to be together for a long time because of work, don't be too exclusive, because this can keep each other fresh and make their feelings more happy.
Because you can have more self-control when you treat your children's descendants and peers, you can get help from your children's descendants and peers, which will promote your emotional stability.
There is a large space for self-adjustment, and I can adapt to reality, correct my feelings and attitudes, think from multiple angles, and increase the harmony of interaction. You can give each other more space and increase the buffer of getting along. The conditions for choosing a spouse are relatively broad, which can increase one's contact range and objects and increase the chances of choosing.
7 emotional balance, rational and enthusiastic communication, reasonable, humorous and considerate, positive, elegant and introverted, slightly handsome personality, able to take the initiative, win a good impression, encounter twists and turns, have stronger adaptability, and learn from experience, so that emotional life appears stable and lively.
As for shortcomings, you are more likely to ignore love and be in a dilemma. You are more likely to ignore each other's feelings, ignore managing love, and sometimes even avoid problems. If you take the initiative, you are worried that you are not dignified enough, and you want to be stable, but you are worried that you are not active enough. It must be noted that because you tend to highlight shortcomings, that is, your love fortune has moderate bad luck. This is not a doomed marriage, but your love attitude is unstable and you are not good at dealing with gender issues. Love is prone to unexpected changes, which will increase troubles and bring resistance. So, in the face of love, you should not be optimistic. You should lower your expectations or standards, and learn how to get along more, instead of just loving or not, so as to have a chance to create a stable love.
The following detailed analysis of your shortcomings, as your usual attention and adjustment reference:
1 feelings contain self-esteem, so it is easy to appear aloof. What the other party is proud of, he often feels bad, which makes the other party feel neglected. It is also easy to have an imperative tone in expression, and it is not romantic enough to speak frankly and add little embellishment, plus not saying good things.
Emotionally, I pay more attention to the abstract spiritual level and don't like arguments. But if I can't communicate effectively with the other party, I will feel that the other party still lacks a reasonable understanding of myself, and even misunderstood my intention, thus putting myself under greater mental pressure.
Feelings are slender and neurotic, easy to be sentimental, paranoid, and have many problems, just like a thorny rose, which makes people love and hate. When things go well, it's easy to ignore each other and have twists and turns. When things don't go well, they worry that the other party will find a new love. You always have to wait until you lose it before you feel seriously helpless.
Seeing the emotional characteristics of different thoughts is easy to produce a short-term ambiguous relationship. Because I can't keep a long-term interest in a fixed relationship, I will eventually turn back after the affair. But you should still keep your distance from other members of the opposite sex and avoid emotional regrets.
5 don't pay much attention to love, even ignore it, and have weak sense of responsibility. I often change my love life because of neglect of management. With low investment, it is easy to feel sorry for emotional injury, and sometimes even have more extreme ideas. The influence of relatives and friends around you is also obvious. When you meet the right person, you often lack courage and miss the opportunity. Sometimes, even if you feel that the other person is not suitable, you can't bear to flatly refuse, making things drag on and on, making it difficult to solve.
6. The feeling of ambivalence has increased. Sometimes I want to add some lively interest, but look forward and look back. Sometimes I want to create some romance, but I can't control my temper and ruin the atmosphere. My love life has become chaotic under the unbalanced speed.
Your love fortune in this life is the best when you are young. At this time, love has more room for development, and you also feel optimistic, and your charm can be moderately radiated. It can be regarded as the most stable period of love in my life. Young and middle-aged people are the most vulnerable time in their lives. It is not easy for them to grasp the opportunity of falling in love, and there will be many unexpected changes. The development of feelings is often different from their own expectations, so their views on love are not optimistic. As for old age, it is also weak, unlucky in love, and obviously limited in development space. We should not ignore it too much and treat it with caution.
From the perspective of individual ten-year intervals, the best performance time is 2009-20 18. Have a strong desire to manage feelings, full of charm, and feel optimistic. If I grasp it well, it is the best time to start a relationship. The worst time of fortune is from 2029 to 2038. Love is unpredictable, one's ability to control is not good, frustration is greatly increased, and charm disappears. Now is not the right time to start a relationship.
The teacher suggested
The correct attitude towards love is respect. We should consider each other's thoughts and feelings more, review ourselves before accusing each other, and reduce the negative impact of our shortcomings. Choose your partner carefully when you have the chance, and concentrate on a few goals, and don't be distracted by greed and even cause changes in love. Dealing with love is not a temporary argument and clarification. We should strive for more buffer and review, exchange time for space, and effectively resolve conflicts or misunderstandings when both sides are relatively calm. Sometimes parting is better than getting married, and both sides don't have to be bored with each other all the time. Separate care can avoid the appearance of shortcomings, reduce the boredom of love and increase missing. Late marriage is also an option that can be considered, which can make you more mature and stable in managing your love life. In practice, we should adopt the practice of "strengthening responsibility, listening and understanding". Efforts should be made to reduce their shortcomings of being easily distracted, hesitant and neglecting their feelings. We can help them make up their minds and strengthen their will with the help of external forces, and at least maintain a high ability to implement key issues to enhance their sense of responsibility. Pay more attention to communication, don't be too direct and sharp, it is easy to make people feel wronged. It is advisable to talk less and listen more, and learn to be considerate to alleviate or reduce their emotional impulses.
Good luck recipe
The bad fortune of love is mainly related to leisure. As long as leisure life becomes unstable, it will have a negative impact on love fortune. So you should try to screen leisure and entertainment moderately, so that your love opportunities will not slip away or disappear at will!
Like auspicious colors
Because of the negative influence of innate love fortune, the choice of color must be from the perspective of restraining fierce harm and suppressing shortcomings. And "aloof" and "world-weariness" are the main negative characteristics of your nature, which reduce your willingness to face and bear pressure, gradually suppress your sense of responsibility, and make your charm unable to spread. The attributes of these two negative traits are "earth" and "wood" respectively. Under the fierce harassment, when the impact is balanced by Mu Ketu and Jin Kemu, and even opportunities are created, the basic hue of wood is green and the basic hue of gold is white, and these two colors become the main axes of innate color application. As for the color saturation, because the main negative feature is one strong and one medium, green should be strong and white should be moderate to correct the surly smell it brings. In terms of brightness, it should be a little feminine to ease the slightly impulsive mood. Based on the above analysis, if you want to reduce the frustration of love and enhance your charm, you should take dark green or white as the main color.