In real life, have you ever met a situation where the bride and groom fell out on the wedding day?
Because after many years, I can't remember clearly. The reason seems to be that the woman and the man can't reach an agreement because of the bride price. Finally, they broke up completely. It seems that a few days later, the woman returned the bride price given by the man, and the clothes that the man bought for her seemed to be given. However, these clothes should be thrown away by the man in the end. After all, they look uncomfortable. I met this couple once. They are very sweet. Boys are also very kind to girls. I never thought this would happen. On the day before their wedding, people they knew met them and their faces looked very happy.
Who would have guessed that the next day, I was not married. I was really surprised when I heard it. Later, when I saw this girl, she should have walked out of the shadow of this wedding and her face was normal. And this boy, I heard from others, also found another girl. Love is sometimes really defeated by reality. I also know a girl and a boy who are also very sweet lovers. However, when it comes to discussing the wedding bride price, the two families have conflicts.
The woman thinks that the man gives less because she doesn't want much. If we follow the general direction, everyone wants more than100000, and I want100000, and there is no more. Didn't say 100 thousand, it's the bottom line of 100 thousand Because that year, many people still needed hundreds of thousands. The man's mother is a thrifty old man, and she doesn't feel that she has lost 12 thousand because she has given less. Both families feel uncomfortable and wronged. This discussion lasted for a long time and almost collapsed. Boys feel that girls look down on themselves and don't want to marry. And girls cry very sadly, thinking that boys don't understand themselves.
However, after many consultations, the two families finally reached an understanding a few days before the wedding and did not fall out on the wedding day. The man gives the woman a bride price of100000, and the woman gets married with a dowry of150000. In this matter, I especially understand the woman. The woman's parents don't need much bride price, but they feel that their face is passable. There are thousands of us. Our family didn't want much, it was the lowest bride price at that time, and your husband's family had to hold it down again and again, which was too inappropriate.
The woman gave the man150,000 bride price, on the one hand, to embarrass him, on the other hand, to let him know that their family was not short of bride price money, just fighting for breath. Many times, it is not a big deal to pay more or less bride price, just to earn a sigh of relief. Summary: Young couples must talk about the bride price a few days before they get married. Don't ask for this money or that money for no reason on the wedding day. In that case, the man will be angry.
At that time, it was not a question of money or not, but a question of a person's quality. If you want money, you must discuss it in advance. Don't get married unhappily or even break up. There may be many such examples. No matter how sweet love is, if you don't know the bride price, you will be defeated in a big mess. You think he can stand it any longer, but sometimes he can't. Finally, just walk away. In the end, no one is happy, and both sides lose.