Can my daughter go back to her family for the New Year?
See if the family is traditional.
1, folk custom
In ancient China, women's status was not high, so there was a saying that married women poured water, because when married, women no longer belonged to their parents. Another reason is that their daughters' spending the New Year at their parents' home will affect their wealth and eat poor parents' homes. Therefore, in the old society, it was taboo for their daughters to go back to their parents' home for the New Year.
2. Modern
In modern times, the status of men and women is no longer so different, and many families no longer avoid the old customs, especially the only child, who is very eager for her daughter to go home to accompany them for the New Year. After all, everyone is round and round in the New Year, so it is natural to have a daughter. Therefore, in modern times, it will not be so particular, and daughters can also go home for the New Year, with small customs and great filial piety.
Second, who is not good for going back to her family for the New Year?
Family.
1. According to the old custom, every family will ask God to send a gift during the Chinese New Year. If there are outsiders at home, the God of Wealth will be unhappy, and the fortune of natural families will also be affected.
In addition, the custom of Chinese New Year is to invite the kitchen god. If the daughter eats at home, it means that the family will be poor. This is also the reason why many brothers don't like their sisters going home for the New Year.
Although there is no scientific basis for the above statement, there is some truth in it, because a woman will have her own small family after marriage, so she needs to set up her own small family wholeheartedly and live her own small life, otherwise it will really make the family unable to grow.