What are the taboos of feng shui in husband and wife rooms?
The Sutra of the Plain Woman says: "The two hearts are not in harmony, and the essence is not in love. For a long time, men are yang, women are yin, and two qi refers to yin and yang. The bedroom is 8 square meters small and the largest is only 30 square meters. When there are two yang and one yin or two yin and one yang in the bedroom, it is not harmonious. Therefore, the husband and wife bedroom should not be placed:
1. heterosexual photos: Many couples understand that this is taboo, but at the time of writing this article, many divorced men and women actually stored their photos of their boyfriends/girlfriends in the computer memory, and this computer is often placed in the couple's room;
2. Couple's things: Many married men and women will make an inadvertent mistake, that is, put the gifts (such as ornaments and clothes) given by their ex-boyfriends/girlfriends in the couple's room, which is a big taboo, because besides seeing things and thinking about people, what's more important is that the gifts are contaminated with the lover's "anger" and will form "jealousy" in the couple's room, which is also harmful to both men and women.
(2) Avoid placing glass statues.
Many couples like to put a statue of Venus in the room. Originally, Venus was the western goddess of love, with a good image. However, most of these statues are made of glass, which is cloudy and cold. Bear thinks that cold materials should not be placed in the bedroom. In addition, there are iron beds, wrought iron products, plastic carpets, plastic floor tiles and granite floor tiles. Are not suitable for use, because iron is a cloud, plastic carpets and plastic floor tiles are insulators and cannot produce gas (magnetic field); Granite floor tiles will produce radon gas, which is not good for respiratory system. (feng shui)
(3) The couple's bed is too big.
Readers have a misconception that the bigger the bed, the nobler it is. In fact, the size of the big bed is strictly required:
1. The size of the bed must conform to the lucky number of half a foot (wealth, righteousness, official and capital are all lucky). The placement of the bed should be arranged reasonably, and its size should also match the auspicious size of the feng shui ruler, which will increase the auspicious atmosphere of the house;
2. Couples' beds of normal size in the market are all 1.8X2m (mattress size), but in fact, the highest divorce rate is this size bed, because 1.8X2m is the rotten number of Luban size. The couple's bed should not be less than 1/3 area of the room, nor should it be greater than 1/2 area.
-The formula for calculating the width of the couple's bed is as follows:
(the length of the man's right hand+the length of the woman's left hand) X 1.3 times, and then look at the chart to find a size close to an auspicious number. For example, a couple, the length of the husband's right hand is 75 cm, and the wife's is 70 cm. Substituting the formula for (75 cm+75 cm+70 cm)X 1.3 times = 188 cm, and then checking the attached table, we can know that 188 cm is auspicious.
The size of the big bed is not conducive to intimacy. In geomantic omen, the size of the big bed takes into account that men and women can feel warm and safe when they touch their hands and feet, so that physical contact can be the most direct care. As for the length, 176 cm can be used uniformly.
(4) Avoid pink walls.
Many newlyweds think pink is romantic, so they paint the walls of their new house pink. Pink is only suitable for the decoration of new houses in the first two years. Marriage needs to be maintained. Pink is easy to make people nervous, panic, anxious and easy to lose their temper. Under the influence of pink for a long time, it is not good for marriage to make men think more.
After years of research on divorce cases, the author found that orange wallpaper or an orange lamp can maintain love for a long time. Therefore, the author Xiong boldly announced his personal experience and suggested that the newlyweds' rooms should be mainly orange in the first three years and arranged according to their personal personality after three years.
Why orange? It turns out that the orange color helps to tease people's brain waves. Register magazine in America also mentioned that orange is the sexiest color for both men and women.
In addition, dark colors, such as dark gray, dark green, dark blue and other cool colors, are easy to make people feel depressed, increase their troubles, make their mood easy to get bored and their temper easy to get worse, so they are not suitable for use in couples' rooms.
(5) Avoid using punching machine.
It is forbidden to knock on the door (bedside, bed, bed end) in the husband and wife room. The door on the couple's bed has two main shortcomings:
1. Punching machine, the airflow of the door comes in directly, without turning. A stream of cold and hot air will make people feel uncomfortable. If there are some stars that are unfavorable to marriage on the day of birth, it will strengthen the disorder of the gas field when rushing to the door, which is prone to mental deficiency;
2. The bed is best hidden, so avoid the first sight of the person who enters the door, that is to say, you can see the activities of husband and wife from the half-open and half-closed door, and people who rest in bed will have a subconscious sense of exposure and surprise. From the perspective of feng shui, privacy is the focus of the house. If this door falls down, the couple will inevitably lose mutual trust, so everyone will have their own ideas.
(6) Avoid the bed facing the mirror.
Many couples understand this taboo, but whether they can accept it or not is another matter. I once talked with divorced people, and found that one-third of them were facing the mirror. A few even installed mirrors on the ceiling to increase the interest of couples and asked them why they should be taboo. There are different answers, two of which are related to Feng Shui. Let's learn together:
1. Mirror belongs to gold (mercury copper frame), bed belongs to wood, and Jin Kemu is the main nerve. Since the nerve is damaged, it is inevitable that it is difficult to fall asleep. Husband and wife share the same bed, and if one party can't sleep well, the other party will also be affected. Xiong believes that the mirror should be placed in the dressing room, cloakroom and bathroom, and the mirror in the room is most suitable for the inside of the wardrobe door. The advantage of this arrangement is that the mirror at home will not be exposed.
2. Mirrors have a stronger psychological influence on men than women. Women dress up in front of the mirror just to please men, and men don't like dressing up. Men see their glory, radical lust, increase self-confidence and indulge in gentle countryside from the mirror in bed. The relationship between husband and wife is very complicated, and the magic of the mirror is not the only way to make it last forever, because staring at the mirror for a long time will make men overly excited and eventually affect their health.
Most feng shui experts do not encourage couples to put TV sets in their bedrooms, on the grounds that TV sets are also mirrors. Unless their lucky thing is TV sets (the five elements of TV sets belong to fire), putting TV sets in their rooms will only make people who avoid fire more annoyed. It's better to put less electricity between husband and wife.
(7) Avoid opening windows indoors.
Strictly speaking, no bedroom can be without windows, especially between couples. "Privacy" in Feng Shui does not mean that the bedroom is closed and there is no sunlight coming in. On the contrary, there is no window between couples or the light is too dim, which will make them unwilling to express their feelings and lose interest. If there are no windows in the bedroom, you can only hang pictures with windows open as symbols. In addition, the bed should not be near the window, and it is best to have a small aisle.
(8) Avoid placing conflicting pictures of the zodiac.
Couples are in harmony with the zodiac. If the zodiac signs conflict with each other, there are unstable elements. If these elements are catalyzed, they will inevitably become accomplices. Just like tigers and tigers punish each other, only one female and one male (tigers) do not compete. If the husband and wife belong to the same tiger, putting a tiger ornament in the bedroom will increase the quarrel between tigers. Therefore, feng shui experts only suggest that couples put harmonious wedding photos, not.
(9) Avoid making out in hot days.
The Sutra of the Plain Woman describes in detail the taboos in the room. Every couple should know that the following situations are not suitable for couples' behavior, which will stimulate negative magnetic fields and lead to quarrels and illness between couples:
1. Every month, Boxing Day, the first day, the fifteenth day, solar eclipse, thunder and lightning;
2. Within three days of the wedding;
3. When you are drunk and tired;
4. Women's holidays.
The quality of bedroom pattern is the projection of love, and geomantic omen is the study of gas field. From divorce cases, we summarized some common taboos. From the perspective of human nature, marriage is the key to life. Husband and wife work together to govern the country, and a good family life makes a man's career go up a storey still higher. Therefore, when we decorate our new house, we might as well pay attention to the above nine feng shui taboos.