My family said that my boyfriend and I couldn't get along. Should we break up?
? My sister and brother-in-law broke up because the eight characters didn't match at that time, because my mother paid special attention to their date of birth. She always thought that people with eight characters couldn't be together. She also urged: "You must find someone who matches your personality in the future, otherwise I won't agree." I don't understand. I nodded.
But my sister was disobedient and got pregnant before marriage. My mother cried bitterly for three days after learning that, and finally agreed to their marriage. Surprisingly, my sister and brother-in-law are doing well now. My mother sees them now and thinks that the opposition at that time was wrong.
If you really love your boyfriend more, don't give up easily. The eight-character disagreement is just the idea of the older generation. Don't let you miss true love because of external factors. As long as two people who love each other come together, they can live better. Think about it. You've been away with your boyfriend for so long, and it's a bit hasty to give up now that you don't have a good personality. When two people meet, it is fate. Don't give up hastily.
I can understand the minds of the older generation. The reason why they object is actually that they are afraid of what will happen to their children's marriage in the future. They are also good for their children, but when the children grow up, let them choose their own way. Because they can't interfere with children's happiness. You should persuade your mother more and tell her more about those happy couples, although their personalities are different.
I hope your parents can enlighten you as soon as possible and fulfill your marriage. I also hope that you and your other half can make a positive result as soon as possible.
Sincerely bless you!