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My father has cancer. I want to sell my house to treat my father, and my mother says I'm wasting money. what do you think?

Some people say that health is a blessing, because it costs a lot of money to get sick now, and even sad situations may occur. For an ordinary family, this is undoubtedly a disaster.

Parents raise us young, of course, we should raise them old and let them enjoy happiness, but sometimes we have the ability to make our parents live a good life, but at this time, our parents are unfortunately seriously ill. So what should we do as children if our father gets cancer one day?

Some people may say that parents are sick and giving up treatment is the biggest unfilial. Of course, everyone understands this truth, but nowadays, treating patients is not a small sum. Filial piety is not enough, but also has a certain material foundation. If you have no money, what can you do to treat your father?

It is said that inheriting beauty is poor. Often at this time, the father will take the initiative to give up treatment because he doesn't want to drag the child down. He is worried that even if he spends money on treatment, he will eventually run out of money. If he wastes money, he might as well leave it to his children. This may also be the greatness of his parents.

My parents brought me up with Xinru and made me a pillar. Now I have made small achievements in my career, and I am ready to let my parents enjoy it. But I didn't know that my father had cancer, and the early treatment would cost a lot of money, but I didn't give up and decided to sell my house to treat my father, but my mother's attitude surprised me.

I grew up in a poor rural family, and my parents worked in the construction site all the year round to earn some hard money for my study. Although life was hard at that time, I felt very happy.

I know that in rural areas, children with poor family conditions like me can only change their fate by reading. Although I was still young at that time, I understood these truths, so I studied hard. I felt that I could only repay my parents with excellent grades.

Later, I was admitted to the university, but it didn't take long that year to get the college admission ticket. My father had a little accident on the construction site and broke his leg. He has been recuperating for half a year. Because my family didn't make any money during that time, life became more and more difficult, and even my tuition for that year could not be collected.

At that time, I wanted to work to earn money to support my family. My father slapped me when he learned the idea. He reassured me to go to college. Don't worry about tuition. He'll find a way.

I cried when my father handed me the tuition. I know my chance to go to college is hard-won. I vowed to study hard, find a good job in the future and earn more money to be filial to my parents. So for four years in college, I focused on my studies. Fortunately, God paid off. I get a scholarship almost every year and go out to work part-time on weekends. With my efforts, the pressure on my parents has also been reduced a lot.

I stayed in Wuhan after graduation. After two years of small business at home, I jumped to a multinational company and worked there for five years. Now I am a department head with an annual salary of10.5 million. I bought a house in Wuhan with the savings loan from my work in recent years.

Half a year after the house was renovated, I took my parents to Wuhan for the elderly, and my parents were not idle. They found a job as a cleaner in the community. Although the monthly salary is less than 2000 yuan, they live a very stable life. Unexpectedly, the accident came.

One day, my father fainted at home, and later he was sent to the hospital for examination. I didn't expect my father to have cancer, which is in the middle and late stages.

At first, I let my father stay in the hospital for a month, which cost more than 654.38 million yuan, but my mother told my father the truth a few days ago.

I decided to treat my father at all costs. Thinking of the cost of follow-up treatment, she planned to sell the house to treat her father, but her mother refused.

Mother took my hand and said seriously, don't waste money when the giant panda is open. In fact, we all know that even if the house is sold, it will not work. Your father won't blame you. Please spend some time with your father.

Although what my mother said is reasonable, I still want to try, but my father let it out that if I sell the house, he will never forgive me in his life.

Now I figured it out. After my father's treatment, I will accompany him, take him on a trip and let him spend the last happy time in his life.