How should I break up?
It is truth in life and truth in love. So how should we break up rationally? I want to share with you how to break up. Welcome to browse.
Between men and women, agree to go, regardless of others and so on. Except for two people, everyone is an indifferent bystander.
They want you two to share it again But the fate is not exhausted, but it is still entangled; Everyone hopes that the rain will clear up? No, I know myself well. Forget it after all.
Strike while the iron is hot.
This? Cold? , is it?
(1) Feelings are cold and there is no room for change. It's no use looking back.
(2) Consider calmly, minimize the damage to both parties and avoid where will you go.
(3) Because it is cold, it is no longer hot, impatient and hateful, so it is decisive, silent and cruel. Respect each other like ice.
Breaking up must take the longest time to think again and again, plus the shortest decision: ok, that's it. ? Don't procrastinate and be wronged, review frequently and be reluctant to go. Is the final result still the same? Why don't we go our separate ways while it's cold and find another life? Maybe there is a better view ahead.
What should we do if we are separated?
What should we do if we are separated? The example of Poria cocos can be used as a reference.
A few years ago, when her boyfriend of four years went to Shanghai for an internship, bad feelings attacked her sixth sense.
He no longer calls for poria cocos diligently and enthusiastically. And even if poria cocos hit him, he just wanted to hang up impatiently; When Poria wants to exchange anecdotes with him cheerfully, she always wants to go to bed early on the pretext of being tired. When some important things in life need to be discussed and decided by my partner, he even said that he would make his own decision without asking me.
Poria's first reaction at that time was, have I talked too much recently? Then all kinds of introspection, but Poria did not reflect on why, because in the eyes of a woman in love, everything here is as usual. Even after noticing his impatience, Poria became extremely cautious, humble and sensible, and almost looked at her face, for fear of accidentally offending others, and the only maintenance line thousands of miles away immediately became? The number you dialed is power off. .
That night, when the idea of troublesome sleep surged, he accidentally turned on the computer and saw his chat record. So, everything has an answer.
The colleague who has always been close to him, the one he has been talking about? Sister? Lively and charming in that long chat record. Although poria cocos has euphemistically expressed her feelings for this girl to him many times before? Care? That's enough, but how can I say it? Just friends, don't think so dirty about the relationship between men and women. ? Let poria cocos feel ashamed instantly.
However, the black and white words recorded on the shining screen made Poria feel dull pain?
She: I want to lose weight.
He: You are too weak and thin. I don't want you to lose weight. You always have an impulse to let me protect you.
She: Then why did you send me so many snacks today? Is it an apology?
He: Sort of. As long as you are not angry, I am happy.
She: Does your girlfriend know that you applied for Beijing company?
He: She doesn't know, and it's better not to know.
She: Then why did you tell me?
He: Because you are someone I can trust.
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Seeing this, Poria shared a notebook and let tears wash her cheeks. Only then did Poria discover how ridiculous, pathetic and ignorant her previous self-reflection was. Poria picked up the phone and dialed him. He's connected. Because I don't know everything about poria cocos, I'm still impatient. Why don't you sleep when you call so late?
Poria cocos is as calm as possible. I heard that you are going to Beijing company?
He knew everything at once and became angry from embarrassment. What else did you see?
Poria said, well, I know you take care of your sister.
He hung up the phone. Poria knew that the game was over.
After that night, he broke up with everyone at dawn. Reason: sex! Ge! Don't! Shut it down!
So he told people all over the world how incompatible their personalities were, how unruly and willful Poria was, and how he went to Shanghai for Poria. A sister like them couldn't help asking him, only to find out now that he was out of character and why he went before. He said, I didn't know she was such a materialistic girl.
That girl showed this screenshot to Poria, and Poria laughed so hard that her heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidneys hurt together. This poor boy spent the best four years with his youth, ate his first love for four years at a roadside stall, explained their breakup with the most common reasons in the world, and then stood at the commanding heights of morality, but never mentioned his derailment and derailment. Just forget it．
Less than a week later, he told the man who made the promise? Just a sister? Girls are together. Because it has a lot of uses in Weibo? Personality incompatibility? * * * who explained the reason for the breakup is a good friend. He is eager to give his sister a warm confession, so he can't contradict himself. So every day Weibo's footnotes are marked with the love code AM5:20(AM is the abbreviation of that sister's name).
During this period, Poria cocos was like a spectator, just like a spectator reading other people's stories, silently watching Yun Qi cloud fall.
Fuling found that their breakup was inevitable. It's just that God was kind to Poria cocos and inadvertently caught a glimpse of the real reason for the breakup. Otherwise, it's easy to get the moon. When the sister nods, it's also the time when the turbulent heart matures. Presumably, he will also pick out those general reasons to prevaricate poria cocos. Personality incompatibility? Rude and willful? Materialistic? But I will never tell the real reason. Poria cocos, who doesn't know the real reason, will be entangled in all women's unavoidable wriggling and small moves in love, and will be anxious about self-reflection and self-blame, thus denying that self-correction is excessive.
Mom said, you do some small work on weekdays, but you are definitely not guilty. His sympathy is a real matter of principle.
Poria asked her mother, why didn't he just admit that he had moved on? Why does he blame me and put the blame on me?
Mom said, because people are animals that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. He is too greedy, he wants to win the new people back, and he doesn't want to be ruined by the moral criticism of the discerning person. Only the two of you are involved in your relationship. If he is right, it can only be your fault. A stick was soon found to beat the dog.
Poria cocos cried and sobbed, Me? I can't let him insult me like this. I have to make it clear to him.
Mom said that the best way to break up is to walk away without looking back. Don't ask the reason for the answer, you will never get the truth, and you will only bring shame on yourself. I will only regret it in the future.
Many years later, things changed. He sends it from time to time? Talking about being friends? The olive branch is sentimental, which makes Poria extremely disgusted and disgusted. And poria cocos, thank you so much for what my mother told her. That's the sentence. Even if the sky were to fall apart in pain, Poria would try hard not to say a word, just to save his dirty self-esteem.
After graduation, Poria witnessed the old saying that he would rather have sex and drink enough than marry a distant girlfriend. Personality incompatibility? The boy who asked to break up was actually just in high spirits. In fact, he has accepted the arrangement of his parents in heaven for him in his hometown. Is it appropriate? Blind date
Poria cocos saw a woman who despised each other on blind date and sent her a good friend card promising to be friends in the future. Actually, she's already looking for someone else.
Poria cocos has also seen her dislike of girls who are not locals and crowd out all kinds of cold eyes. In fact, it's just because the boy's mind is uncertain and he doesn't want to give up the whole forest for this sapling.
Fuling has also seen girls whose parents dislike each other, who are not smart and have low emotional intelligence, and deliberately embarrass girls by using the topic of living in a mortgage house with their in-laws. In fact, his family has bought a house in full, just trying to find a daughter of a civil servant family for his son and help him have a bright future.
He doesn't love you. It's wrong for you to cry, laugh and even breathe.
In the movie, both he and she have an excuse to leave, but it is always beautiful. He didn't want to delay her happiness by stabbing her eyes in the army? Personality incompatibility? Break up; She is terminally ill and can't bear his sad excuse? Empathy? Leave to avoid his despair; He borrowed it? Daddy Long Legs? In the name of helping her do everything, you have been silently accompanying her?
In reality, most infatuated children who are not sensible are unwilling to give up. So with obsession and unwillingness, go to ask for an old lover? Statement? . Even if you expect to leave, maybe the other person really has a difficulty that you can't help but give yourself? There is a kind of love called letting go? Reasons for choosing the beauty of adults. Even trying to get a saying that you can leave with your eyes closed, I am reluctant to go. Maybe I can see you again in the afterlife, and my heart will have a home.
Compared with the wishful thinking that has already been laid, these reasons are relative. Gentle and kind? Get up, insincerely wrapped in a more cruel truth. This is actually the last of those who have wishful thinking? Goodwill? At the same time, use a specious reason for your funeral, hold on to your hypocritical mask and refuse to put it down? Helpless? what's up Good people? Shelves. And leave yourself a way out, after all, the tables have turned.
As a result, some spoony children left their self-esteem, some felt ashamed and overcorrected, and some began to doubt life because of unwarranted denial. What you trample on and overdraw for others' hypocritical excuses is actually your precious dignity. She sobbed in a low voice. I won't do this again. He wants to cry. Can you tell me what I did wrong and I can't change it? His heart is full of lead. Can you give me more time? Her heart is broken all over the floor: actually, I have really worked hard?
Once upon a time, he and she, who were so scribbled, so humble and reluctant to give up because of love, brought shame to themselves, used to be the apple of their parents' eyes, the teacher's favorite pupil, the leader's right-hand man and the outshine others in their circle of friends. That dirty self-esteem, once a burden of amorous feelings at the beginning of love, has become the last straw to maintain the integrity of the soul at the end of love.
In fact, the air-dried answer will always emerge inadvertently under the erosion of years. At that time, you will eventually be defeated by the wind and frost years, and your amorous feelings will fade away, leaving only the wisdom and objectivity that you never had when you were young. However, if you really face the cruel and naked truth at the moment, how can you face the fact that the purest, most sincere and softest place in your youth was actually attacked from both sides, and how can you save your self-esteem that was shattered because of reluctance and infatuation?
Therefore, Huang Xiaoxian ran and cried: Nothing in the world is dirtier than self-esteem. At this moment, I suddenly realized that even if I am dirty, I need this self-esteem to accompany me for the rest of my life.
Therefore, Ding Dong sang in the song "I Love Him": The only regret for him is the day of parting/my tears can't stop/if I come back at that moment/I won't cry/let him know that I can be fine.
Therefore, Zheng Zhihua roared loudly: dry your tears and don't ask why.
So, my mother touched Poria's head and gently told Poria that the best way to break up was to walk away without looking back. Don't ask the reason for the answer, you will never get the truth, and you will only bring shame on yourself.
Fortunately, in those years, I had a stubborn turning point and stuck to my self-esteem, so in the end, Poria had no regrets.
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