Small west monitor can't call parents three words.
Monitor Xiaoxi is one of the typical parents. In China's family education, parents' educational responsibility is considered to be very important. However, sometimes parents will also face some educational problems, such as some misunderstandings in the process of educating their children. Among them, "you can't call your parents" is a common misunderstanding.
What we need to be clear is that "we can't call parents" means that children should not be asked to call parents directly or order parents. The idea behind this educational concept is that parents are regarded as authorities and superiors, while children are subordinates and controlled objects. This concept holds that children should maintain a respectful and obedient attitude towards their parents, and should not directly order or address their parents.
However, this educational concept often ignores the equality and interaction between parents and children. The relationship between parents and children should be based on respect, understanding and trust. When children encounter problems or need help, they should be able to ask their parents for support and advice without hesitation. Children should be free to ask questions, express their views and needs, and expect their parents' understanding and support.
When parents forbid their children to call their parents directly, they may lose the opportunity to establish good communication and close relationship with their children. Children may feel oppressed by their parents, afraid to talk to their parents and express their true feelings and needs. This kind of communication barrier may lead to the alienation of family relations and affect the growth and development of children.
We should change the educational concept of "no parents". Parents can encourage their children to actively communicate with them, including asking questions and expressing their feelings and needs. Parents should treat their children equally, respect their thoughts and opinions, and give them proper attention and guidance. When children need help, parents should take the initiative to provide support and guidance to help children solve problems. Through active communication and interaction, parents will better understand their children's needs, establish a stable parent-child relationship and promote their healthy growth.
Therefore, the educational concept of "no parents" is not conducive to the communication between parents and children and the establishment of parent-child relationship. Changing this concept, encouraging children to communicate with their parents actively, and giving parents reasonable attention and support will help children grow up healthily and establish good family relations.
The advantages of being a monitor
1. Cultivation of leadership: Being a monitor can cultivate your own leadership. As a monitor, you will be responsible for organizing and managing all kinds of activities and tasks in the class, such as coordinating curriculum, organizing meetings and assigning tasks. Through these experiences, you can develop the ability of taking responsibility, teamwork and leading others.
2. Improvement of organizational management ability: As a monitor, you need to have organizational management ability. You will need to coordinate class affairs and communicate and cooperate effectively with teachers, classmates and parents. This will exercise your organizational skills, time management skills and interpersonal skills.
3. Enhance communication skills: As a monitor, you will need to communicate with all kinds of people, including teachers, classmates and parents. This will improve your oral and written skills, and help you better convey information, solve problems and deal with conflicts.