The daughter died unexpectedly, and the 60-year-old grandmother had no choice but to give birth to twins. How has she been these ten years?
There was once such a great mother who gave birth to twins at the age of 60. Now, more than ten years have passed. Faced with the heavy blow and obstacles of life and her poor physical condition, she was unable to raise her twin daughters. Now she is in a bad situation, which makes countless people feel sorry for her. She is Sheng Hailin.
She is pregnant with a second child in her sixties.
There is a woman named Sheng Hailin in Zaozhuang, Shandong Province. She once had a very filial only daughter, and a family of three lived a happy life. But the hardships of life fell on this harmonious family. The daughter died unexpectedly due to gas poisoning, and Sheng Hailin's only daughter left her.
This news is like a bolt from the blue, which makes Sheng Hailin, who is nearly 60 years old, unacceptable. Since the death of her daughter, Sheng Hailin has lived in Lacrimosa every day. It is hard for ordinary people to understand the pain of white-haired people sending black-haired people. Heartbroken Sheng Hailin wanted to end her life and follow her daughter, but countless suicides were stopped by her husband. After being persuaded by good neighbors, Sheng Hailin gave up the idea of suicide.
However, at this time, the country's open second child policy made Sheng Hailin see the dawn of hope again. In order to give the couple a sense of security, Sheng Hailin has a bold idea, that is, to have a second child. When she told the news to her relatives and friends, she was immediately opposed by everyone. In everyone's opinion, Sheng Hailin has reached the age of being a grandmother. Let alone other problems, Sheng Hailin's body will be overwhelmed. However, everyone's persuasion did not change Sheng Hailin's idea, and even the seeds that he wanted to have a second child were planted in Sheng Hailin's heart.
After consulting with her husband, Sheng Hailin got her husband's support. Sheng Hailin and his wife finally decided to get pregnant through IVF. After a long wait, Sheng Hailin finally got the great good news, and she got pregnant successfully. After the B-ultrasound examination, they were still twins, which made the couple who were nearly sixty years old see hope. After careful consideration, Sheng Hailin decided to give birth to this hard-won child. Sheng Hailin was very careful during pregnancy, and she understood the importance of the baby in the womb to this family. The husband even resigned and concentrated on taking care of Sheng Hailin's daily life.
After more than ten months of careful care, twin babies were born smoothly. Because Sheng Hailin was 60 years old when she gave birth, and she was still a twin, the child was very weak after birth. So it must be kept in an incubator for a period of time.
The old woman's life was lengthened.
From pregnancy to childbirth, Sheng Hailin and his wife spent nearly several hundred thousand yuan, which is undoubtedly a huge economic pressure for couples who only rely on pensions as their source of livelihood. Now the twin daughters are born smoothly, and all kinds of living expenses and tuition fees are extremely high. Although their monthly retirement salary adds up to more than 30 thousand, it is more than 30 thousand for ordinary retirees
However, it is not enough at Sheng Hailin's home. The couple in their sixties still need to travel around to earn living expenses. In order to let their daughter live a happy life, Sheng Hailin and his wife feel that it is worthwhile to pay more.
Now, Sheng Hailin's twin daughters are all ten years old, and Sheng Hailin has moved from her sixties to her seventies. She feels more and more overwhelmed physically and financially, and the living expenses of her two twin daughters are getting bigger and bigger, which makes the life of a family of four stretched. However, Sheng Hailin did not lose confidence in life. She still takes care of the daily life of her two daughters and leads a busy life at home and school. Although such a hard life also made Sheng Hailin shed tears, Sheng Hailin still gritted his teeth and walked on the road.
On one occasion, some media asked Sheng Hailin if he regretted giving birth to twins. Sheng Hailin said frankly that she really regretted it. She said, I knew it would come to this, I knew I had to face waves of setbacks, and I knew there was so much helplessness and helplessness. At that time, she would seriously consider the suggestions of relatives and friends.
However, Sheng Hailin also said that he has gradually become accustomed to this kind of life in his busy life. Let her suffer what kind of suffering, as long as her daughter is happy. Faced with all kinds of difficulties, Sheng Hailin only thinks about her daughter. What a sad thing it is to say this sentence from an old man who is nearly seventy years old, but he is walking in the kitchen and school in a hurry when he should be enjoying his family.
The present situation is poor but happy.
Photos of Sheng Hailin and her daughter can be seen everywhere in her home. Sheng Hailin said that she takes photos with her daughters every year and wants to record their growth. Although Sheng Hailin is very busy every year, he still takes time out to celebrate his twin daughters' birthdays. Even if it is made up in advance, he never misses a birthday.
It can be seen that Sheng Hailin and his wife love their children. Sheng Hailin and his wife devoted all their energy and time to the upbringing of their children. Twin daughters are also very sensible. They have achieved excellent results in their efforts and can do their own things independently in life. When Sheng Hailin is busy, her daughter will also help with housework.
Sheng Hailin will also receive cards and birthday gifts from her daughters on her birthday, and then treasure them. Therefore, although life is very hard, as long as you think of your sensible and filial daughter, the faces of Sheng Hailin and his wife will be filled with smiles. Sheng Hailin, who is nearly 70 years old, wants to spend most of his time with his children. She wants to witness the growth of her daughters and take care of their lives. At the same time, Sheng Hailin also wants to take good care of his body at home. Only when she is healthy can she take better care of her daughter.
Sheng Hailin's choice to have a baby at the age of 60 is undoubtedly a huge adventure and a kind of harm to her health. Therefore, Sheng Hailin ate up all the hardships of life in ten years. At the age when you should enjoy life, you are facing various difficulties, and the cost of living is a big problem. Therefore, it is really pitiful for a 70-year-old man to be unable to support his children now.
Perception of life
Every mother is great, but Sheng Hailin's greatness is beyond the reach of ordinary people, because only she knows how much sorrow Sheng Hailin, a 60-year-old maternal, has experienced. Sheng Hailin, who should have spent his old age on a pension, was unable to raise his daughter because of economic problems and living conditions.
Although Sheng Hailin's life is hard, we should still support her, because only Sheng Hailin has such courage and persistence. We can't predict how Sheng Hailin and her children will live in the future, and we can't know how much suffering they will experience in the future, but we can bless Sheng Hailin's family and hope that life will be kind to Sheng Hailin's family.