People born in the year of tiger are born with fire in the furnace. The five elements of wood are prosperous.
Friends, when it comes to change, I think what really needs to change is yourself!
Establish a positive outlook on life/life, enhance self-confidence, take the initiative to exercise and change introverted personality, learn to think from other people's perspective, and learn to communicate:
Even if the starting point of our words is good Good and well-intentioned. But if you speak too forcefully and don't pay attention to the other person's feelings, it will sound like an attack to the other person, which is very uncomfortable.
When communicating, you must pay attention to the other person's feelings. After all, everyone has a "need for self-esteem."
Everyone wants to be affirmed, praised, recognized, and echoed, but does not like to be denied or despised. Therefore, even if the two parties have different opinions, they must "seek common ground amidst differences and communicate harmoniously" and "say what you say, but in a more tactful tone".
When communicating, in addition to defending oneself, people must also put themselves in the shoes of others, make good use of "empathy", and learn to control their "tongue". "When the time is right, say something beautiful; when necessary, stop saying something you shouldn't say."
"Don't rush to say it, don't rush to say it, but think about it." Never be quick to talk and regret it later