The best state of marriage is Guo Jing and Huang Rong; The worst is Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl.
Even if I like the dashing Cheng Ying in Tsing Yi again and the lovely Guo Xiang again, I still think it is only natural that Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl are together.
Sixteen years of vow reunion, sixteen years of reunion after a long separation, a thousand words condensed in the sight of reunion.
At first glance, there is only one person in the world, which is enough.
What I hate most is Guo Jing, who is upright but dotes on his wife and daughter, and Huang Rong, who has a deep prejudice against Yang Guo and always wants to separate them.
After the couple got married and had children, they never saw the simplicity and agility of The Legend of the Condor Heroes. Before they got married, before The Condor Heroes, they were so likable as protagonists.
At that time, at a young age, I often lamented that maybe this is the price of growth. No matter how cute the character is, it will become disgusting after years of circulation.
Of course, at that time, I saw things in black and white, and I often only saw the surface of things, but I couldn't think deeply about the connotation of things.
Until in recent years, I was also washed by time, only to find that:
Guo Jing and Huang Rong, a couple, are ordinary and real, and their feelings are even more enviable.
However, there are too many things that are not love in the relationship between Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl. Maybe only in novels can they grow old together.
When I watched The Condor Heroes, I couldn't imagine that Huang Rong, a strange but kind little brother, would become a middle-aged woman trapped by the world in the future.
Not to mention the wrong way of educating Guo Fu, just wanting to oppose Yang Guo and the little dragon girl behind her doesn't conform to the design of the condor heroes.
As the daughter of Huang Laoxie, how can she be trapped by secular ethics? Think that year, she disguised as a man, and Guo Jing arm-swimming, don't like to be restricted by the three cardinal guides and the five permanent members.
I didn't understand it at that time, and I didn't understand it until Guo Jing and Huang Rong were described in "Eternal Dragon Slayer".
Guo Jing and Huang Rong finally defended Xiangyang to the death.
Guo Jing is a man, a chivalrous man, serving the country and the people. I naturally believe that he will stick to Xiangyang and finally be exhausted. But Huang Rong, who may have inherited the wind from her father Huang Laoxie, has nothing to do with her. She also died in Xiangyang. There can only be one reason, and that is Guo Jing.
The only weakness of this fearless leprechaun is his jing elder brother. For him, Huang Rong can be a loyal minister, a righteous man, and a good wife and mother. She put jing elder brother first in everything, took jing elder brother's ideal as her own, and fought for it.
So, she was afraid that Yang Guo would know the truth and retaliate against Guo Jing, deliberately not teaching Yang Guo martial arts; And when Yang Guo said that she wanted to live with Aunt Xiaolong, she was stopped everywhere.
Because it was the Wulin Congress at that time, Guo Jing United everyone to resist the Mongols, which was the time when Guo Jing needed fame and cohesion. If something goes wrong in Yang Guo, which regards itself as its own, it will not affect the great cause of Guo Jing.
After all, lively and lovely Huang Rong, the starting point of all actions is just for her husband.
Otherwise, why should she be the leader of the Old Lion Beggars' Sect, the owner of her own Peach Blossom Island, and live with jing elder brother? Doesn't it smell good?
This woman, who is smart, thinks too much and thinks everything for Brother Jing, so she is Guo Jing's wife, helping Guo Jing manage the logistics of such a big city as Xiangyang.
She has never been an evil person. When Yang Guo was trapped in the valley of despair, regardless of life and death, he offered to ask for the desperate Dan. She said:
"Yang is too kind to me, so I gave my life and asked for a rude Dan. Life is alive, and if you don't report it, isn't it just like an animal? "
She may never have changed, she is still kind, and her eyes are still only on her beloved jing elder brother.
And Guo Jing is worthy of Huang Rong's love for himself.
When watching The Condor Heroes, we all know Guo Jing's tolerance for Huang Rong, but in The Condor Heroes, this tolerance seems to have evolved into an annoying connivance.
He protected Xiangyang wholeheartedly, leaving everything in the backyard to Huang Rong. This is because of his limited energy, but more because of his unconditional trust and love for Huang Rong.
On the issue of Yang Guo, he fully considered the opinions of his wife Huang Rong before sending Yang to Zhong Nanshan. He didn't want Yang Guo and Huang Rong, the two closest people to him, to have a bigger contradiction, so he made such a choice.
Some people say that Guo Jing is not good to Yang Guo, which is all wet. In the original book, Guo Jing, indomitable spirit, sent his son away and cried himself!
Yang Guo dressed up as a dirty beggar when he won the hero's party. Guo Jing didn't show any disgust. Instead, he said to Huang Rong, "Rong Er, look who's here. What a shame. Our children have grown so tall. "
Yang Guo was afraid of getting dirty and asked Guo Jing not to hug him.
As a result, Guo Jing said, "Silly boy, what did you say? Guo Bobo will still think you are dirty. " Then a bear came, and I was very excited.
It can be said that Guo Jing is the most perfect figure in Jin Yong. He is affectionate and righteous, honest and upright, and has done everything for the country and the nation. His only weakness is Huang Rong, and his tolerance for Huang Rong leads to his arrogance towards Guo Fu, which may be his biggest mistake.
However, Guo Jing and Huang Rong are definitely an enviable couple.
From the two of them, we can see that the husband has infinite love and trust for his wife, while the wife tries her best to support her husband. Two people have the same goal, with one heart and one strength, born with the same, and died with the same point.
The marriage between Guo Jing and Huang Rong begins with love and ends with love, which is the best state of marriage.
Why is it the worst?
We must make it clear that marriage is always a relationship based on love.
Without love, even if there are more benefits, I can only call it the worst.
Yes, I don't think Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl started with love, and they won't end in love.
Does Yang Guo love Xiaolong girl? Watching TV when I was a child naturally thought it was love.
Otherwise, why did you jump off a cliff and commit suicide for the sake of little dragon girl Guo? Why did Yang Guo fall in love with eroticism, and let him fall in love with eroticism at the thought of Little Dragon Girl? Why can you ignore the beautiful Chen Ying, the charming Guo Xiang, the virtuous Sun Lue and the naughty one like you? Why can I create my own martial arts?
But is this really love? I don't think so.
In the original work, after the little dragon girl was defiled, she asked Yang Guo if she wanted to marry her. Yang Guo replied, "You are my teacher. You pity me and teach me. I swore that I would respect you and listen to you all my life. You can't be my wife. How can I deserve it? You are my master and my aunt. "
Visible, at the beginning, Yang Guo only because of his special growth background, only to treat his good little dragon girl as a relative. At that time, Guo Jing was misunderstood, thinking that Yang Guo, who was wandering alone in the world, only regarded Little Dragon Girl as his only spiritual support.
Of course, it may also be that in the course of later suffering and getting along, many of these family ties have become love between men and women. But to tell the truth, anyone who has been in love knows Yang Guo's feelings for the little dragon girl. There are too few feelings between men and women and too many feelings. This is from the description when they practiced the Jade Girl Heart Sutra together.
How exciting it is for a hot-blooded teenager to sit naked with a peerless beauty like Little Dragon Girl! And Yang Guo, without a trace of evil thoughts, shows how much he respects the little dragon girl!
Such feelings of mutual respect should be transformed into love, as if there is a natural lack of hormones like chemical reactions between men and women, a lack of blushing you and me, and a lack of impulse and passion to attract each other between soul and body.
Is such love still called love?
Say that finish Yang Guo, said little dragon girl.
Little Dragon Girl lived in an ancient tomb since childhood, and the only man who had long-term contact with her was Yang Guo. Born cold and cheerless, she didn't show any love for Yang Guo before leaving the grave, nor did she show any affection and behavior that a beloved woman admired a man.
But after being defiled, the little dragon girl who thought it was Yang Guo suddenly changed her mind. This change, in addition to the far-reaching impact brought by the first skin contact, is also caused by the door rules of the ancient tomb school.
Little dragon girl with simple mind respects the teacher very much. After Yang Guo's death, after * * * left the mausoleum, the effectiveness of this door regulation was particularly obvious.
Under the double stimulation, the little dragon girl proposed to marry Yang Guo. What's more, in the little dragon girl's heart, Yang Guo, a man she doesn't hate, is also the only one who can accompany her for a lifetime.
This kind of psychology is not love, but the only choice after being defiled.
We can also prove it from the fact that the little dragon girl lives alone in the ruthless bottom, but arranges her seats into an ancient tomb. Of course, there is a little dragon girl's yearning for Yang Guo here, but this yearning is pinned on the scene where Yang Guo was with herself when she was a child.
So the marriage between Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl is not because of love, but because of "suitability" and affection.
Not only that, Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl actually have a big personality gap. Yang Guo's temperament is unconventional, unruly and charming, so he has the saying of "falling in love with Yang Guo at first sight for life" and "being crazy about the west"; The little dragon girl is indifferent and uncontested. Her only hobby is keeping bees at home.
More importantly, they have different interests. Just out of the tomb, Yang Guo was so happy that he wanted to find a place to play. The little dragon girl objected. In the end, Yang Guo obeyed the wishes of the little dragon girl and was willing to live in seclusion in a deserted place.
Temperament is very different and interests are different, which is also a major drawback in marriage.
So the marriage between Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl, like the song Fairy Tale, can only exist in the mythical love in the novel.
In real life, it is actually the worst marriage because it is suitable for being together and there are too many temperament differences and different interests.
The love story between Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl has become an eternal myth.
The love story between Guo Jing and Huang Rong is constantly staged in the world.