Child, when you choose your mother in heaven, your mother is also preparing a lot of love for you.

Recently I was watching Sun Li's "Hot Mom" ​​and I was very moved.

What moved me the most was not when Xia Bing gave birth to a child in the play, but when her editor-in-chief Li Muzi gave birth.

Xia Bing put little thought into giving birth. She thought more about how to maintain a good figure during pregnancy. In order to quickly restore her figure after giving birth, she kept doing exercises. for a smooth delivery. It started in the middle of the night after the baby was full term. At this time, the baby had not yet entered the basin. He was still squatting and walking near the delivery room. After the baby was born, what she thought about most was how her dirty image was not good for others. As for giving myself postpartum depression.

She said something like this, saying that after the baby is born, she will not care about her own affairs. She will never think of breastfeeding, taking care of the baby, and a series of things that newborn babies and mothers encounter. Fortunately, her husband has always taken care of her. Being accommodating to myself slowly got through the period of postpartum depression.

Her boss Li Muzi is just the opposite of her. After getting pregnant, Li Muzi is very careful about everything. She is considered an advanced maternal age and has given up having children for the sake of her career. Now she is very determined to have a child. Determined to the point of being cautious about everything once she gets pregnant. Her temper has become very gentle, and she doesn't get angry with employees easily. She hired two nannies at home. She even asked Hans, an American doctor from the International Hospital, to perform surgery on her. She booked a family ward and planned the birth of her baby. The horoscopes, when the child will be born, what kind of incision will be...

But despite all calculations, it still didn't go as planned.

Just like Li Muzi’s husband said, no matter how much he thinks, his children’s ideas are not as big as his own. He can come whenever he wants, and there is no way to stop him.

Fortunately, the mother and child are safe. Although the umbilical cord blood and handprints and footprints were not left as planned, it doesn't matter anymore.

Li Muzi said: "It doesn't matter if I have an ugly vertical scar, or if he cuts me alive without anesthesia, or if I use my life to counter his life, it won't matter." No matter how hard it is, it won’t hurt...

He is so small, I didn’t even dare to touch him when he was small...

Being a mother for the first time feels even more special... …”

Every mother has the same idea. Really, nothing can give a mother peace of mind compared to the safety and health of her child.

Even her husband Luo Tian lamented that although he already has a daughter, he still gets nervous when he sees his little son, and his heart feels like jumping into his throat.

The baby was lying in the intensive care unit. His small eyes, small mouth, two small hands were dancing around, and his calves were kicking. Even Xia Bing beside him couldn't bear it. Motherhood flourishes.

I always remember the first time Li Muzi saw his baby crying happily. That is a true portrayal of every mother.

Before I became a mother, I didn’t feel the same way at all. But after I became a mother, it was really different to see other people giving birth to children. That feeling was more than just touching. .

During my pregnancy, I also exercised all day in order to have a normal delivery. A week before the baby was born, I ran between home and the store all day long. After that, I even walked on the playground every night, which did not delay me at all. When doing other things, I thought that if I exercise more, the baby will enter the basin faster, give birth faster, and exercise more and the baby will not be so painful.

But the reality is not like this. When giving birth, the cervix is ​​fully dilated and the baby has not yet returned to the correct fetal position. I have no choice but to take the baby out after two days and two nights of pain. .

Since then, a scar has been left on his belly. I once thought that this scar was particularly ugly, but when I thought that the baby was fine, I instantly felt that I was also a heroic mother.

Thinking about my pregnancy, my husband and I were also very curious, wondering whether he was a boy or a girl, what he looked like, and who he resembled more. But when he came out, nothing mattered. What mattered was him. Why don't you cry, why don't you eat, why don't you urinate.

Haha, it’s interesting to think about it. The night the baby came, I cried a lot in the delivery room and fell asleep quietly the whole night. We also slept soundly all night, so much so that the nurse the next day He also asked, why did your baby not cry all night when all the babies in other wards were crying? He was also teased that your baby was very bored and didn’t know how to cry even when he was hungry.

Come to think of it, these are all jokes. It is these jokes that bear witness to my motherhood.

The first time I breastfed him, he nestled in my arms. His little body was so soft that I didn’t dare to move, for fear of squeezing him and slurping the milk with his little mouth. , that feeling is really the happiness that only a mother can feel.

Later, when I asked my husband how he felt at the door of the delivery room that night, he said with emotion that he just wanted to smoke a cigarette to calm down the shock. He felt particularly nervous and worried. When he heard someone crying in the delivery room, When I heard the sound, my heart felt like a big stone had fallen to the ground. It wasn't until I saw me coming out that I felt calm.

I didn’t see the baby until the next morning. My husband took a photo and showed it to me. I also said how could it be so ugly, haha

Until now when I saw the baby in my arms A baby who is almost 100 days old will still feel that time has passed by in a flash, as if there is still time to tell him stories every night.

And now he can already eat his little hands, listen to noises, and giggle. He is growing up really fast.

When I didn’t have children, I didn’t feel anything at all watching other people give birth. But when I had children, I felt really sad for a long time. I felt that there was one more happy mommy in the world, and at the same time, there was one less one. Heartless girl.