China Naming Network - Almanac query - Children have to take everything with them when they go to the supermarket. How should parents discipline themselves?

Children have to take everything with them when they go to the supermarket. How should parents discipline themselves?

If you really encounter this situation, you must implement positive discipline methods and don't let your child lose his temper. Letting children lose their temper in the supermarket is very harmful to the image of parents and children and to the healthy growth of children. In fact, the best way is to do a good job in advance to prevent children from "always wanting things when they see good things in the supermarket". We should educate our children to buy what they should, explain clearly why we really want what we want, buy what we agree with, don't buy what we don't agree with, and don't get angry in public. At the same time, parents should do what they say and don't make rules, because soft-hearted people can't follow anything casually.

The child is very clever. If he sees that his parents can give in when he is angry, he may get what he wants and then become angry. It is not difficult for children to develop some good habits, but parents must be careful and not be soft-hearted! When children go to the supermarket, they want to buy everything and everything they see. They think it's not too much to move the supermarket home. These are normal phenomena in childhood, because I am curious and want to buy things. Of course, as parents, we can't give our children everything they want.

I think we should start from the following aspects: if a child wants to eat, we can tell the child what she or he can't eat at this age, what to eat less, treat them differently, and don't drag the child away. Whether a child wants a toy depends on whether he or she can operate it at this age. You can buy educational toys for children of the corresponding age, develop intelligence, train thinking, play at school, and play at school, which complement each other. If children like to buy books, this is what parents like.

If there are similar or identical books at home, children can be told to read the books at home before buying them (conditional supervision helps children develop good reading habits). If it's different, you can buy less to help your child digest it in time, or buy a piece of garbage. In any case, we should blindly meet children's requirements, make choices and develop what children need and don't need. Don't be impulsive and buy things they don't need.