Marry a good wife and prosper three generations; marry a bad wife and ruin three generations.
A good woman is a good feng shui for a family, and she can influence three generations.
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A good woman can create a good family environment.
A good woman who is considerate and pays attention to the art of speaking can not only handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also handle all interpersonal relationships well.
Create a relaxed, quiet and harmonious living and communication environment for families.
Everything prospers when the family is in harmony.
This is probably the family life that everyone hopes for.
Only with a good family environment can we have a better life.
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A good woman can promote the continuous growth and progress of men.
A good woman who is wise, mature and full of positive energy can continuously promote the growth and progress of men.
As the saying goes, those who are close to red are red and those who are close to ink are black. People influence each other, especially couples.
A good woman who is full of positive energy will subtly influence the husband around her, making men also full of positive energy.
A good wife will have a great influence on her husband's life, including pattern, vision, cognitive level, etc.
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A good woman can cultivate excellent qualities in her children.
A good woman who is smart, virtuous, and full of wisdom can cultivate a good child with good conduct.
In the family education environment, the mother's influence on the child is far greater than that of the father.
Compared to fathers, mothers are often better at expressing and talking, and they have many more opportunities to communicate with their children.
Moreover, as a woman, the mother has the unique meticulousness and sensitivity of a woman, and can quickly perceive the psychological and behavioral changes of her child, and then communicate and educate.
A good mother plays a vital role in the cultivation of children, including personality, quality, ways of doing things, etc.
? The bad wife who ruined three generations
First, she is not filial to her parents-in-law and is self-centered. Many daughter-in-laws nowadays feel that their mother-in-law should take care of them when they get home, and she should not take care of her mother-in-law. He even said confidently, "I never cooked or washed clothes at home. When I married into your family, I had to do these things like a nanny." In fact, if you think about it, it's true that you have been pampered at home since you were a child. To find someone to take care of you? Her mother used to take care of her, but now she has to take care of her husband's mother. The change is a bit big, don’t you want to think about what the problem is? Then there were the endless quarrels. The husband is caught in the middle and suffers from both ends.
She has no respect and love for her husband. She never cares about her husband’s face, whether at home or outside. If your husband is just an ordinary man and you still dislike him, it’s not okay, that’s not okay. There are some who compare themselves with other people’s husbands, force their husbands to do certain things, and even force their husbands to commit crimes.
What kind of children can such a daughter-in-law educate? Will it also ruin your next generation?