Why do new wives hide from the first and fifteenth days of junior high school?
It is said that it is unlucky for a boy to be born on the first day of the new year. Similarly, if a girl is born in the Lantern Festival, there will be a catastrophe in the future. What is the truth? Superstition or not, let's talk about how this proverb came from.
On the first day of the first month, Vientiane begins, which is the most prosperous day of the year, so every child born on the first day of the first month belongs to the life of the sun, which is very car-scrapping. Such a boy can be said to have a bright future, but there is a problem, precisely because the life of a boy born in the first grade is too hard, and it is difficult to treat once he is sick.
And people eat whole grains, how can they not get sick? So many mothers are very afraid that their children will be born in the first month. What can they do if they are ill and cannot be cured? From the perspective of modern people, this is pure fiction. Where is this truth? According to this theory, is it difficult for a boy born on the first day of the first month to be thrown into a mountain stream?
The same is true for girls. Why can't girls be born on the fifteenth day of the first month? In ancient times, the fifteenth day of the first month was the Lantern Festival. At that time, the Lantern Festival was different from now. At that time, every household hung lanterns with candles in them. It is said that if a baby girl is born on the Lantern Festival, it is a typical fire of life. What is the fire of life?
Get angry if you don't agree with a word If you don't agree, call names and hit others. I will marry my husband and beat my husband in the future, but I will not marry my husband and beat my parents. Dare such a daughter? But this is also a folk myth. How can this be true? It is true that there are lights on the Lantern Festival, but the fire is completely different from the fire that makes people lose their temper.
Now you should understand that "men are afraid of the first grade and women are afraid of the fifteenth grade" is actually unreasonable. In ancient times, people believed in Feng Shui, and people believed what Feng Shui said.
So people should avoid these unlucky days in any case when giving birth to children, but throughout history, we found that some men born on the first day of the first lunar month in China eventually became celebrities, didn't they? Giving birth to a child should be a natural thing. As long as the child is healthy, it can be given birth at any time. Some pregnant women in modern times also believe in Feng Shui. In order to get the baby, they just have to wait until twelve o'clock in the morning to give birth.
As a result, the time was delayed, which affected the baby and his health. It was really uneconomical. What's even more outrageous is that a woman calculated the date after she found out that she was pregnant, which was probably born on July 15 of the lunar calendar. This is the "Ghost Festival" in the social legend of China. On this day, neither boy nor girl can be born. When they are born, they will be taken away by ghosts.
So she finally chose abortion to kill a healthy baby in the cradle. There are many such things, and it is hard to imagine that such things will happen again today when technology is very developed.
Men are afraid of the first day, and women are afraid of the fifteenth. I don't know if you're afraid, but I'm not. Children can be born at any time, as long as they are healthy.